for a good month or so i kept my virginity secret from the guy i was datin just cuz i was afraid to tell him i was a virgin since he was so experienced. finally, of course i had to tell him, and we waited a good month and a half after that conversation till i was finally ready. i was just wondering, do guys like it when a girl tells them that they want to loose their virginity to them? i was afraid when i told him i was a virgin, it was a turn off. just curious.
Wed, 11/15/2006 - 02:53
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guys n virginity
> i was afraid when i told him i was a virgin, it was a turn off. just curious.
And was it?
I think you've answered your question for most of us--it is not a turn off.
If it is for someone, then he needs his head examined and his priorities put in order.
If you were in your 30' or 40's and still a virgin - yes! it would be a HUGE problem. But since you aren't that old - nope, not at all!
BTW if you cannot talk with him - why are you ****ing him?
BTW if you cannot talk with him - why are you ****ing him?[/QUOTE]
thats was when i first met him, we had only been datin three weeks and i wasn't even sure if i wanted to sleep with him, i didn't really know him that well...obviously now i feel i can talk with him about anything
Excellent! Effective communication is the key to a good relationship.
yep.. talking is the key.. after all humans are not mind readers
i dont think its a turn off more a turn on lol