ok ive been with my guy for over a year and recently he told me he doesnt masterbate is this normal? should i try to persuad him to start cause befor this i thought all guys did ??
can some one give me advice or explain thanx 
Mon, 06/23/2003 - 19:15
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guys masterbation
There's an old saying: "95% of all men masturbate, the other 5% lie about it."
It's true that there are a small percentage of men who do NOT masturbate - however, in my experience there is usually a VERY strong reason for it.
From life-long religious teachings against masturbation to family-fostered arrogance like, "why jack off when you can F#*&K a woman."
Both of those, and all similar irrational thoughts are NOT healthy. You should ask him why he does not masturbate. If nothing else it will generate conversation about your sex life, and start a foundation you can build on.
I for one, would love for you to post back when you hear his reasons for NOT masturbating!
ps: I'm 42, and even during my 12 year marriage, and my current 8-year LTR, i masturebate an average of 5-6 times a week! (Thats also in addition to my normal sex with my partner)
Most guys do, yes.
He might have said that thinking you would be offended or grossed out by the idea that he does.
Or, he might really not do it.
There's nothing wrong with not doing it...
i had asked him before but he just says that he doesnt masterbate because doing that to him is for me and i also think it might be because hes not that experienced and he doesnt have a close relationship with his dad could that be it? also ive herd a guy who masterbates has better experiences do you think this is true?
thanx
well like its been said on several posts around the site pertaining to both men and women those who masturbate know their bodies and what makes them feel good. therefore, they are able to better tell their partners what turns them on and gets them off
I wouldn't call my experiences better, but I know more about myself and what turns me on and such. It makes a sex-life a lot easier when you know your body.
I would pull the old fantasy gig....
Lets act out some of our favorite fantasies.... though you may want to put some provisos on it so it doesn't get out of hand...
Then say one of your is to masturbate with someone at the same time, maybe even race to see who can get off first... If he does, it will be pretty easy to see, and if he doesn't masturbate, maybe he will start once he realizes the pleasure.