[QUOTE=Squanto;178921]well i'm sure there are numerous posts and all that concerning this issue, but i'm too lazy to look, and i was wondering if you people had any tips concerning staying erect after the first orgasm and/or lasting longer

thanks[/QUOTE]
Yep and probably TOO LAZY to keep an erection...so move on!

No reason for us to do the work to answer your question. Look for the many threads or go ask your friends. They will have great ideas for you.

Unlike some others here, I will actually be helpful.

Lasting longer - take deep breaths, think about something else, get in a position where you're in control of the thrusting. All of these work.

Staying hard after the first orgasm - constant stimulation. Don't remove it from her pussy for longer than a few moments.

It's not that we don't want to be helpful...it's that we've taken the time to post answers before, there is even a stickie about it under the "sexual health men" forum.
Plus, he actually admits he's too lazy to look for the answer =\

Why did you even bother to post that last message? Just wondering.

Pause now and again.

If you are too lazy to ready the m/any informational posts on the forum then that tells me you are not too interested in reading anything lengthier than the opening sentence. Too bad. As Brandye stated, why should we spend our valuable time on you when you admit to being too lazy to spend any time on yourself? Many of us who regularly answer posts get tired of having to type the same response over and over and over and over and over and over and over again. I took to writing several Sticky posts that you will find at the top of many forums, just so I could reference the information in each of them. I'm not lazy, just get tired of the same ol' thing over and over, particularly when someone asks a question and then states s/he is too damn lazy to look for an answer that could have been found in a fraction of the time it took for any of us to reply to this.

[QUOTE=Jiffylube854;178962]Why did you even bother to post that last message? Just wondering.[/QUOTE]

B/c I am not too lazy to post an answer...and I was commenting on your comment as to the above posters not being helpful :rolleyes:
Which is totally not true...Brandye posts LOTS of helpful info and Hard...welll... lol he's good for a laugh...and does post some good info too :)

How long do you guys last anyway?? For me I usually last between 5 to 30 mins..It depends on situation..If the girl is kinda tight and she is good at sex..I dont last long...especially when shes on top and shes riding me fast and hard..and If I wear extra lubricated condom..

I say Pace yourself.
Dont be a beast and think as soon as you slide in you gotta start pounding the pussy. Fast to SLow, Slow to fast,Hard to smooth etc...Pace yaself and at any point you feel your about to bust and dont want too either slow it down or stop and do something else..BUT DO NOT STOP PLEASING THE WOMAN! Its all a game, if you stop and start too much she's gonna think your sex game is wack! So you gotta sike her out by say...eating the pussy.

Suck the clit,lick it, finger and sucking combo..whatever...do that until her moans get you even harder and when she is about to cum...STOP and slide it back in and work that pussy!

If your like me you can control it. Cumming that is.
And in addition a womans actions and moaning is enough to keep me hard...but try my method. If done right it works.

And oh yeah, keep ya "Nut" Tank low! lol
Meaning waiting a week or more to cum then finally getting some pussy will have you backed up and ready to cum fast. Keep it low with the occassional "jerk" session say every other day or once a day.

Good luck

one way too last longer is...STop thrusting..you gotta fight the urge...if you feel that sensation coming slow down or just stop for a moment..other than than that your own your own...practice fighting the urge

I can usually last as long as I want really...

The way I do it is go at whatever pace the sex is at,fast,slow,hard,blah blah and when I feel like im about to cum I pull out for like 2 seconds and then slowly put it back in and slow it down and then that works as long as you pull out before your momentum keeps going haha

i'm not sure if this will work for you but it works pretty well for me. i find that if i get extremely close to an orgasm then pull out and rest for a second and then repeat that again i can control how long i last for. i'm sure it's not for everybody but it helps a whole lot for me. and when you rest make sure you don't stop pleasuring her!

Well, I used to be a heavy pre-mature ejacuast... persay heh, anyways, all I did was masturbate often, and I MADE myself wait a couple times when I felt the urge to bust, I held it in. I would do this 2-3 times each time, 2-3 times a day, and believe me it got better in a week or two, I would be able to last 10-20 min more every week or two.