Like a lot of teens, once I learned to masturbate, masturbated lots and lots, then became bored with it all sometime later, I began looking for ways to add variety to accompany the spice. This is your story, too, correct?
One of the techniques I discovered was to insert pauses here and there while stroking in order to extend the enjoyable sensations. An important discovery was to locate hot spots along the shaft of the penis and/or Corona Rim where the Glans joins the shaft. At the top of that list is the Frenulum, the Y-shaped ridge of skin on the underside of the penis.
For years I've been bringing myself to the peak of excitement yet just before crossing the point of no return and ejaculating. The objective is to prolong the exquisite pleasure derived by holding my physical sensations in check and "milking these pleasurable sensations for all their worth" before finally letting go and permitting the orgasmic experience to rush over my body and mind.
I never had a term for doing this until just a few days ago when I read about "Edging". If you would like to learn how-to, please read this article and accompanying discussion listed in the Index:
[URL="http://www.sexinfo101.com/forum/sexual_health_men/19797-squeeze_and_trai..."]Squeeze & Training Exercise for Controlling Premature Ejaculation
The key to your success is being able to keep a portion of your conscious brain focused on where you are along your arousal curve and to be able to pause and or modulate your movements just enough to hold the level you've attained without either having an "ah shucks" moment, giving in to the sensations and climaxing to only later wish you had not; or, not being able to recognize when you are at peak and being able to hold yourself at this enjoyable place for as long as you want.
As mentioned in the article, you can learn the technique when solo by practicing and learning to recognize when you are about to climax yet not so close that you lose control. If you are with a partner, the two of you can work together and master the exercise. Key to your success is to work you way up your arousal curve over time until you can maintain your maximum level of excitement and tension without losing control.
If you have never held yourself on the Edge for a period of time, you are missing one of life's little pleasures. "Try it, you'll like it!"
Have fun. ;)
-doc
I have used these techniques for years to improve longevity in bed, but also on occasion to speed things up for oral sex. if I'm already half way there, she's more like to perform orally.
This is also EXTREMELY fun to do and apply when giving a guy a hand job. Just be wary that this may cause blue balls.
> This is also EXTREMELY fun to do and apply when giving a guy a hand job. Just be wary that this may cause blue balls.
SG, Either way, hand job or masturbating, I am not suggesting prolonging his ecstasy for an extended period of time. More often than not a when we masturbate we get right to the point and if we delay the process, it is only slightly. Edging has the capability to hold things at bay for several exquisite minutes.
Acquiring "Blue Balls" is not really a major concern. If it happens, the fix is simply to have an orgasm--pure and simple. Result: no more pain.
[color=blue]try reading that book " The Multi-Orgasmic Man"......it touches on this subject and beyond[/color]
This is the best. The first time i had a woman do this to me I thought I'd died and gone to heaven. She teased me right to the brink about 7 times before letting me release. And when I did she was sure to be using really slow strokes right at the end.
There is nothing better in the world.
I love the stop and go way.. I can go for over an hour or 2 before I decide to cum... what a feeling... A day hardly goes by when I masterbate...
This is also EXTREMELY fun to do and apply when giving a guy a hand job. Just be wary that this may cause blue balls.
I do this to my wife when I go down on her, she get's near as her backside raises off he bed and then I stop and start kissing her on the mouth which gets her very horny, then I go down and bring her to the edge again, her climax is massive when I finally bring her off by taking into my mouth her lips and clitoris together. She does the same when she gives me oral sex for nearly an hour and then sucks that little v shaped piece of skin underneath the penis as I climax she stops and just lets it do it's own thing as it pumps without even touching it. Another fun thing is to make love in the morning by don't finish but get to the edge and stop, get dressed and start again in the evening that way you have both been hot all day, it can be amusing to say the least :-)