i want a woman's opinion on a guy having sex toys for a woman. would you think it is weird,thoughtful? Would you trust that they are properly cleaned or not take the chance?
Just curious because i don't have much experience with toys, just a finger vibrator once. i thought maybe this could be something to add to my playbook.
I wouldn't use a toy at a man's house, simply because I don't know where it's been.
Sex toys are personal products. And it's advised on the labels that you should be using it only on yourself. This is for hygiene reasons and preventing possible transmitting of decease. Exception is a toy for you two as a couple. If you're exclusive to eachother and having unprotected sex you could also share a toy ;) I'm talking toys such as we-vibe or a flat headed vib to stimulate both your outer genital area's. If you're talking insertable toys, don't exchange directly between orifices though! And if you will be sharing a toy with someone you're not steady with; throw a condom on it and change the condom before swapping. Also: some toys are more properly cleanable than others; glass toys can generally be boiled. By my knowledge; boiling for 5 minutes kills all bacteria and viruses. Doesn't get cleaner than that! :) I however doubt I'd want to be boiling toys, when I'm at a man's house for other purposes :rolleyes:
I follow u, I was thinking along the lines of something to add while I'm performing. Some kind clitoral or anal stimulator. like I said I don't have much experience with toys and don't really know whats available, so i just wanted to get some feedback. I'm always thinking how I can make sex more pleasurable for the girl. That's where I get a lot of pleasure from and that's why I'm here in this forum.
well i guess since no one replied i guess everyone thought that would be creepy. point taken.
I don't know that I think it's creepy, just not sure why it's necessary. If you've got a girl over, isn't your objective to be the toy, yourself? If you follow me?
Not that there's anything wrong with toys. But if you're ready willing and able, wouldn't you rather do it yourself?
Thank you RR, that is completely understandable for a woman not to be comfortable using a toy from a guys house. i have the best intentions but a woman has to take responsibility of her own health. thank you for the information of the toys and protective measures. i think i will wait until i have a friend with benefits or when i find someone special to settle down with. if i get anything i think it just be a pocket vibrator for me or her to use on her clit. anything more than that and i will talk with the girl about it.
Every man should have a basic, waterproof, elegantly designed but plain vibe on hand. Just the one.
And he should use his dishwasher to clean it because the dishwasher is specifically designed to sterilze everything cleaned in it.
How this would work during an evening's fun is to use "Let's wash the sex toy" as a TEASE as early as possible. Whether it is then used is irrelevant.
I remind you that the addition of a sex toy is NOT for a first date.
I have not proper idea on that, i thing you have got answer from above question.
I wouldn't idk if its clean, i wouldn't even have sex with u, no telling where u or the toys have been. I don't care if they are clean, I would never use a used toy unless it was with someone I was dating.
I wouldn't idk if its clean, i wouldn't even have sex with u, no telling where u or the toys have been. I don't care if they are clean, I would never use a used toy unless it was with someone I was dating.
I understand but your fears may not be legit and if you're there at all - trusting him that far - why balk a the addition of a sterilized toy?
If you don't trust him then why are you consorting with him?