My wife and I have been experimenting with her gspot. First off, I don't care if it exists or not, we have a blast playing around and she enjoys it. I would just like some input from a woman's perspective, preferably one who has reached a gspot orgasm.
I believe I have found the right spot\area as she gets the "pee feeling" when I rub it. She loves it and after a while it gets really intense to the point that she starts twitching and shaking a little. At this point I can feel everything swell around my fingers. I think she is too focused on squirting even though I keep telling her not too think about it and that I could care less if she does (big fat lie! lol). I just want her to enjoy it and reach an orgasm. As soon as she concentrates on squirting, she loses the feeling and then she says she's so worn out she wants to stop.
Can someone help us out by explaining how it feels and what to do. She really wants to squirt even though I've never made her feel like I want her to. She says she gets close but she doesn't get the "bare down" explanation. Can someone explain everything in more detail?
Any help is greatly appreciated!
Thanks
Here's something we used to talk about in math and science class: If A then B, but just because B, not necessarily A.
A = squirting, B = orgasm. She has to orgasm to squirt, but just because she's not squirting doesn't mean she's not having an orgasm. She IS. This is evidenced by the shaking and exhaustion, among other things.
Squirting is going to come down to her letting go-mentally and physically. One way to do this is to simply stop trying to 'hold it in' when it's so intense and she has the peeing sensation. She could very well be out-thinking herself too--focusing on trying to squirt could be bringing her consciousness around, so to speak. Awakening her from being relaxed/lost into the experience, if you follow me.
Once I learned to let it go, I've never figured out how to hold it back again--T said once he'd like me to try to hold it back and then let it explode, similar to how it does for men, but I can't seem to recreate that. It just all comes a'gushing.
You should really do a search. Boththe G-Spot and squirting have been discussed in detail.
First, squirting. Some of us squirt; some of us sometimes squirt; and, some of us do not squirt. The resons for this can be found in some the threads. I have never squirted nor have any of my female partners and really do not feel deprived. Squirting is attached to G-Spot stimulation because of several websites that seem to link the two.
The G-Spot is a separate issue. Whether or not it really exists is subject to some doubt (also discussed in various threads) but I am happy to have the experience myself. It is doubtful that more than about ten percent of all women have had their G-Spot successfully manipulated. You seem to have gotten to that successfully. What, and whether, the G-Spot actually is is discussed at some length in a sticky entitled The G-Spot: What we do and do not know.