If you know the question has been asked then why don't you read? I mean there are threads right on the Pleasing Her forum.

Use the search function for petes sake.

> try and see if we can figure out how to get to the gspot?

The G-spot is located just inside the vagina along the anterior {front) wall and about 2" in. Feel for a small spongy feeling disk of membrane about the size of a quarter.

Do this when very highly aroused for best results. The Graffenberg-Spot like the Prostate gland only becomes reactive when a person is very aroused.

> should i just try another partner seeing how we are in the swinging life style.

I suppose you could, although, what would you gain if you tried three guys who were equally as clueless or inept? Better to continue to ask questions and/or seeking answers. Here is help with that.

Please familiarize yourself with the Index found at the top of the main screen. It contains links to helpful informative insightful, as well as how-to articles that discuss the most common questions and concerns people ask about--like yours. In addition, if you click on the site's Home Page, you will find even more information. I recommend reading each of the articles and adding the information to what you already know. Knowledge is empowering.

Welcome to the SI101 Board and its Forums. I hope you will enjoy participating.

Regardless of who your partner is, "explore and learn together in partnership".

-doc

I wrote an article that deals with this SPECIFICALLY so I would't have to continually repeat myself.

THE FOUR HOTSPOTS

You will find it listed in the INDEX

As Swinging/Lifestyle is FUN, sure, go right ahead.

[color=blue]some of the podcasts that I've been listening to lately.....you can stream them directly from the internet....they have alot of podcasts on g-spot exploration

[url=http://personallifemedia.com/podcasts/230-expanded-lovemaking]Podcast: Expanded Lovemaking - Sex, Love, and Consciousness[/color]