Personally I cannot resist a 40 year old, 6 foot tall "teddybear" kind of guy.
Yummmmmmmmmmy!!!

Ah! Group sex! GREATEST party you could ever imagine! YES it lived up to its billing. All of those delicious men for my enjoyment. Being one of the centers of masculine attention. Watching others. Oh my, YES! Great fun!

Each party is different but you generally want two men for each lady. The guys use condoms, using a new one with each penetration. Use lubricant as needed. Participants do whatever they wish at the time.

There are rules, of course. Men offer but whatever the lady says, goes. Women rule these events.

Join you local swingers group.

[QUOTE=ShadowMan;163828]Hi there, i was just curious, is group sex a common thing or is it considerd one of thoes things eveyone dreams about but never acualy follows thru? If you (male or female) have had group sex i want to know if it was all it is hypped up to be. how many guys/girls where u with and what did u do. just curious i guess :) thanks alot[/QUOTE]

best for you to find out if any of your local swinger clubs have a "bring a friend" evening. This way you get a "look" at the people in the club. You may find that it isn't everything you hope it to be.:eek: Around here it seems to be alot of balding overwieght guys and lots of overwieght,put a bag over their head ladies.If just getting laid by anyone is your thing,then it would work just keep an open mind about it.

Exactly how shallow are you hardngood? Or have you forgotten that "It is the person, not the packaging that matters"? Should we judge you based only upon your looks too?

[QUOTE=EvilEvilKitten;164122]Exactly how shallow are you hardngood? Or have you forgotten that "It is the person, not the packaging that matters"? Should we judge you based only upon your looks too?[/QUOTE]
Shallow?? Nah, some taste,yes. it is the entire package that counts actually. All I can say is that a good thing they have adjustable lighting! Cuz seriously more than a few of them would cause a person to chew their arm off if you woke up beside them!:D :D

The entire person is what matters and yet you'd chew your arm off? Make up your mind, HardnGood! It is either one or the other!

[QUOTE=EvilEvilKitten;164122]Exactly how shallow are you hardngood? Or have you forgotten that "It is the person, not the packaging that matters"? Should we judge you based only upon your looks too?[/QUOTE]

Hey, at least he included "balding overwieght men" There's one around here. I understand they let you in free if you bring one or more females with you. Tells me they don't get as many females as they'd like. At least ones that don't scare everyone else away!LOL

Don't like small cars or real big women but somehow I always find myself in-em. Kidd Rock

We are swinging nudists and there are a few couples at our local resort that we like to get together with. We have a lot of fun.

Some people fantasize about it and others follow through. Some can't do it, while others seem to love it (like my fav. poster evilkitten.) We (my fiance and I) love it. I like to watch her with another guy and she likes seeing me with other women. But we can do it, we don't have any jealousy or trust issuses. We love each very very much and I'd never hurt her, but this is pretty much who we are, we can't have a normal relationship. It works for us.

If you're doing something together that you both enjoy - then it is good and 'normal' for you two! Congrats!

Besides which - it is great exercise!!

Hmmm "balding, over-weight men"? Strange how so often those are the most skilled and thrilling lovers. Perhaps the years have taught them something?

can just a female go to a party like that without a date?

Yes you can, just be sure to introduce yourself to the hostess.

could you kinda explain the "order of operations" when you get to a party of such so I may know what to expect?

That depends upon the party. Each group has its own rules. All I can do is tell you ours. Would that help?

yes it would, i would appreciate your input. thanks!

In this group, everyone is met beforehand for a chat over lunch or drinks just to see if their personaliy will mesh with the group. The rules are everyone plays with everyone there of the other gender. Bring your own condoms, lube (no toys), beverages, and so on. You get naked immediately upon entering and it is no holds barred from then on. The women rule, of course, so they where they want him, how etc. the men say sure thing. Then someone tells a joke and everyone loses focus and laughs and the whole thing becomes one big naked party with comedy and sex mixed. Our usual ratio of men to women is either 2 to 1 or 3 to 1.

so, there is more men than women...is it limited to one girl one guy or can you play with 2 guys at one time? is everyone in one room or seperate?

also how long do they normally last?

Plan on 4 to 6 hours at least.
Usually two rooms but some have entire houses at their disposal.
And you can have as many men at one time as you want.

Nonsense. Low self-esteem does not go well with groups. You can't go and give any number of men a run for their money unless you have the female equivalent of cojones.

Talk to women who seem interested in you and somewhere during the conversation, quietly mention that you're looking for a threesome, specifically an FMF, with her and your current gf.

i was wanting to maybe try having sex with my girlfreind and another girl i have spoken to my girlfriend about it and she says that she dosnt want me to have intercourse with her but she can suck my dick and what not but how do i find another girl that would do this threesome thing and ANOTHER THING my girlfreind has been with 2 other guys and she is my first and i would want to have intercourse with both of them how do i convince my girlfreind otherwise?

so you go into the party, and find a guy or 2 and just for example you can give one of them a blowjob while "riding" the other or something like that...then when you are "done" do you just go find another or do the guys then come to you?

You have suggested it and she's thinkng about it, now go hunting for your 'third', the other lady, together.

but how do i find someone willing like i dont think i can jsut walk up to sum 1 and be like hey wanna threesome that seems a little wierd

[QUOTE=GKnapp;166728]but how do i find someone willing like i dont think i can jsut walk up to sum 1 and be like hey wanna threesome that seems a little wierd[/QUOTE]
go looking for the EXACT opposite of a trophy girl,preferably one with low self esteem and you'll get want you need for sure,hands down.:)

Either way, curiousgirl, either way. Not like anyone is going to say no to you.

OK WOOOOHOOO i brought up the topic and my gurl is DOWNNN....but like that gigantic story we have to set down all those rules and what not but who cares i got one girl in mind who is a sort of good freind and we had this big joke going that i wanted to **** her like 3 years ago WHCIH SHE KNEW so...I NEED TO FIND SOMEONE!!!!! HELPPPPPP

Gknapp - you BOTH have to go 'hunting' together since both women have to 'approve' the situation. Yes, it is the women who run this show. If the prospective lady is interests you then your lady will have to initiate contact and the discusion. You tag along and be charming and attractive.

charming, attractive HAA no problemo thanx so in your opinion evil who should i look for jsut a pick up from somewhere or a freind or what???

Either way will work. Just point her out to your lady and let her do the rest.

ok kool thanks ill let you know what happens as it happens ;)

enjoy your new partners.
multiple partners in one party is so so fine.

i love to have my orgasms and having a party gives me them.

but the cum is another thing.

a mans semen is the best lubricant for sex.
when the next guy gets in me my vaginal canal is already wet from the previuous guys semen.

[QUOTE=TERRYFORSEX;168156]enjoy your new partners.
multiple partners in one party is so so fine.

i love to have my orgasms and having a party gives me them.

but the cum is another thing.

a mans semen is the best lubricant for sex.
when the next guy gets in me my vaginal canal is already wet from the previuous guys semen.[/QUOTE]

I'm 20, would they allow me in? I know im not 21 yet but would I just have to wait till im 21? If I've only had sex twice, would they allow me in?

It seems to me alot of like 30 year olds and older do this swingers club thing. Are there adults my age doing it like organized?

Turbo;

I realize you are half joking but think through one thing..."terryforsex" obviously does not think about too much...especially HIV...

Yes the groups would let you in since you're over 18 but the one I am with - no, sorry, but you aren't "qualified" yet.

do they really put the bag over someone's head if they aren't attractive?
I think that would be sad to see that or embarrasing for whoever is wearing the bag over their head.

Yeap and they tied the bag with a really tight rubber band!

ok, lets here more GOOD stories from the swinger parties....the jucy details

Juicy details - no way, baby! If you want to know - you're going to have to come out and play!

MAN! Im still thinking about it...just dont afraid I will find a group and when I get there I will know someone...

Do not worry. No one will talk. They'd have to explain why they were there too.

VERY good point!

Evil evil kitten, You said girl rules. okay. But really she can. I mean suppose I go there , will it always as per my choice. Bcoz, wont men who are more dominate the thing. I want to ask that in such clubs, are the rules really followed by men. eg a girl selects two guys just for Vaginal sex. When they go in some room or other place, will the two guys respect her choice ? or go on as they wish. Who controls the men?

I have never been to this kind of party but hopefuly other men would do the same as i and would get those guys who do not respect what the women ask from them out of there

Women rule, sania, because if the men do not obey and do as they're told, the women will TELL THE ENTIRE WORLD ABOUT IT and not only will those disobedient men never get laid again, any other male in the group won't get laid by any woman in the group for the rest of the evening unless the rest of the men gang up on the disobedient and throw them out.

And when you consider that most of the women are married and their husbands are there - well, it doesn't do to insult another man's wife.