> Im Just Wondering What It Is Like Having Sex With Other Straight Males Doing It In The Same Room?

Distracting and disruptive?

> What Is it Like In A MFM 3some?

Only the three of you can figure that one out as multiple personalities are involved, and each different from another trio.

Well, from what I have heard - it is rather like watching pornography or a live sex show in which you also get to participate. 3somes do NOT have to include bisexuality. The two of the same gender gang up on the singleton in the manner desired by the singleton. For me - MFMs are just FUN!!! Mmmm two teddybears to play with!!!

You also get a bit of education watching her responses to another man's style. Each man has his own skill level and style when it comes to sex. You might add a few things to your repetoire and you might show him a few things as well. This is NOT a competition but a COOPERATION between the two men in their effort to make the woman climax so much that she becomes incandescent. FOCUS upon the "mission" here and all will be well.

Well, maybe I can shed some light considering I had my first full 4-way swap last night. Having a naked and erect guy in the same room (same bed in fact) was not an issue for me. Watching the other guy do my partner wasn't a problem either, although we are not in love, just really good friends and long-term sex buddies.

I was asked a few weeks ago if I'd be the 3rd in a MFM with a married couple I know, and I wondered about the naked male thing too, but after last night's encounter, I don't think it's going to be an issue with them either.

What was interesting though was that in some ways it didn't feel real, almost like I was observing it instead of participating in it. Not that it wasn't pleasant, but I spent a good part of the beginning of it when I was performing oral and watching my partner get laid, with not much of an erection to speak of. Later on things got suitably stiff and all-in-all it was an exciting and fun experience. The other guy came REALLY fast (about 90 seconds, even though they had 2 years of swinging behind them) and I wound up finishing my own partner off and well as his wife, and at one point had one of them riding me and the other straddling my mouth (a long time fantasy for me), but for me anyway, having strangers involved was not an issue. I never made any actual physical contact with the other guy though, so I don't know how I'd feel about the inevitable skin2skin contact in an MFM encounter (assuming double penetration, etc.)

I should note that I made a point of kissing and fondling my own partner for her reassurance even while I was playing with and even inside the other woman. She needed to know that she was still important to me even though I was getting pleasure at that moment from another woman.

Your mileage may vary of course.

Group sex can be wonderful. I've been the additional guy for married couples before. It worked very well. On some occassions, the hubby only watched.

I dearly hope to have a wife someday that will desire sex with other men, whether in a threesome, or 1 on 1.

All of the treesomes that I have had were all MFF.

The only time I was around another naked guy was when me and my girlfriend were at a couple's place, and the four of us had sex with our mutual partners in the same room. I felt comfortable around the guy, we were already friends anyhow.

I might have been less comfortable had I not reminded myself that the nudity came with the territory. The sight of his penis, though bigger than mine (not that I gave it more than a glance), was just simply the price to pay in exchange for getting to see his hot girlfriend nude as well.

I'm usually far too busy to notice such details.