How do you women like when a guy grinds (or if he does at all)?
I usually grind a lot during sex and also do it and at slow and fast paces. Most the girls I do it to seem to really enjoy it. I was wondering if it arouses and navigates the vagina in different ways then just straight in and out penetrating does?
That's the reason why I grind because I feel like it adds another element to arousal and navigating around the vagina in a more dynamic way. Add that with the pace, angles and touching and it equals good sex. Anyway, I want to know what you think specifically about grinding because if we go into what makes good sex it'll need a thread of its own.
So how do you like grinding?
i love it! it drives me wild lol
Are you sure Babyycakkez? For some reason I think you're a bot. I hope not.
I love it when my husbands grinds during sex. Has a different feeling to it..
i really enjoy grinding. It adds to arousal
Cool, cool. Thanks ladies for pumping up my confidence.:cool:
Grinding, hmmm, imagine that - or is it that you don't know where you should be aiming so you're just hoping you hit an internal hotspot? OR are you rubbing her clitoris while you're also enjoying intercourse?
What is grinding?
I prefer being the grinder to being the grindee. That makes it more likely that the proper bits will stimulated.
Mike: It is moving the pelvis in circles whilst in deep rather than thrusting in and out. Done well, it is quite pleasant for those women who like lateral rubbing of the clitoris and labia.
BTW, Mike, you left us wondering about your g/f and pregnancy a few months ago.
[QUOTE=EvilEvilKitten;247725]Grinding, hmmm, imagine that - or is it that you don't know where you should be aiming so you're just hoping you hit an internal hotspot? OR are you rubbing her clitoris while you're also enjoying intercourse?[/QUOTE]
Well, I usually grind because I like to mix things up. A little bit of a regular in and out thrust at a slow and fast pace, and the same with grinding. Of course, I also grind in hopes of hitting her clitoris and navigating her vagina in different and hopefully more arousing ways.
So, do you like the grinding?
I like a man who knows what he's doing.
ummmm what? im not a bot
You can grind in circular patterns if you're angled down on top of her and position the head of your penis where it's pressed on her pf. Small movements with your hips so that it rubs her clitoris and labia combined with rhythmic flexing of your penis so that it pulses on her pf can work well.
Note: How well that works would depend immensely on your anatomy: the rigidity, girth, and ability to flex it when still inside her. I have a larger girth and am very rigid so it doesn't take much movement for it to be felt significantly. I doubt this would work when I was a teenager because I would have been too rigid and not able to get the angles correct to flex. It's a fine balance but you can experiment with hip positions to see if it'll work for you.
A good example, fun, of why I prefer being the grinder to the grindee. Bar rigid penis' make me feel more impaled that screwed.
[QUOTE=EvilEvilKitten;247797]I like a man who knows what he's doing.[/QUOTE]
Nice answer.
[QUOTE=Babyycakkez;247807]ummmm what? im not a bot[/QUOTE]
That's good to know.
[QUOTE=madmike;247743]What is grinding?[/QUOTE]
See my string cycling . My hubby on top of me. He inserts and then I bring legs close. He then goes in out as well as moves as if I am bycycle.His alternate legs goes up and down while sleeping / fucking me. His cock moves in out as well as rotates inside me. Its real fun. But in end should finish normal way.
In this position , he can hold himself for longer time.
I don't know whether this is called grinding.? But its fun.
The pyrotechnics come from within, people, not from without.
[QUOTE=EvilEvilKitten;248264]The pyrotechnics come from within, people, not from without.[/QUOTE]
EEK what is pyrotechnics !!
The sex that makes you go WOW!
pyrotechnics = fireworks or explosives
In the sexual realm, your world gets rocked! WOW!
Yippee - grow up. You might also want to pay attention to the handle. It does not say CuteLittleFluffyBunny now does it, dear.
That was kinda rude, Kitten.
My bf and I just started having sex, and though he has often told me about how he's gonna play with my clit while fucking me, and even start grinding, I think he gets too exited by the fact that his penis is inside me to remember! He'll learn... or I'll have to gently instruct him.