Hey, this is my first post but I have been lurking around these forums for a while...
Anyways, I see that this question has been asked, kind of, but not exactly my question. So, I was wondering if, when grinding, ladies like when the guy is hard. I almost always am hard while grinding and I was wondering if that is a turn off. I have read that if the two people dancing are in a relationship then probably not...I am wondering in terms of a high school home coming/prom situation where I would be dancing with lots of different girls.
The reason I ask, is because I once overheard one of my sisters friends (though this is when she was much younger [I think maybe in 8th grade]) say that so and so needed to learn to keep it down when grinding. Anyways, this got me to thinking and I want to make sure it isn't awkward or uncomfortable for the girl if I am hard.
Thanks and sorry for the long post...
If I am dancing close to a man; that close I am doing it by choice. Yes, I do find the slight bulge a compliment and a turn on. Prom is fine, I doubt you all are doing ballroom dancing where distance & positioning is proper! Does this mean I want him to rub around and get off on me? NO!
Close? Yes.
Grind? No.
I think its a turn on, it makes me feel sexy. If the girl gets close enough that she can feel your hard on, I don't think it's a turn off to her.