K so.. I have been with my man for years.. but lately it has been hard to get wet. Im not sure why because he is "hard" and attractive to me. Sometimes he sort of jumps into sex (sometimes at moments when im not in the mood) and then blames me for not being attracted to him anymore, which makes me feel bad.. i don't know if my mind is somewhere else or we just move too quickly in foreplay.. need help! any comments please!
Fri, 01/05/2007 - 02:01
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Got Lube?
He's going to have to realize that not everybody is ready to go at the same time. If he wants it, he's gonna have to make sure you are warmed up properly. Blaming you for it is ludicrous and it is probably going to make matters worse.
you're not the problem he is, the more you are arounsed the more relaxed the vaginal opening will be from what i've been reading lately, and of course the more wet you'll be. try to talk it out w/ him you can't just jump straight into sex with no lubrication, bodily made or manmade