[QUOTE=Quote (lonely19yrold @ Mar. 31 2003,14:32)]First off...is he using a condom? I found that I lasted longer with a condom on.
Second...maybe you should try with both of you lying on your sides and him entering you from behind. (Not anal sex though)
Try experimenting with different positions of variations of the positions you already do.[/QUOTE]
would that not be kind of sore! i have not got much experience
Try more foreplay. You can orgasm before penetration if you wish, then he can cum in his own time.
Also, there are lots of other positions you can try to see which gives you the extra stimulation you need. When he is on top stimulate your clitoris with your fingers. I am surprised you can't get pleasured when you are on top, that is when you have the most control over position, depth, etc.
Here are a few links that might give you some ideas of what you can try ... Foreplay, Positions and Pleasing Women. I suggest you get him to read these too!
You might also want to check out the section on Premature Ejacualtion if that seems to be a problem.
Experiment and you will find what works for you both. Good luck!
[QUOTE=Quote (trudy @ Mar. 31 2003,14:36)]would that not be kind of sore! i have not got much experience[/QUOTE]
Not if you use enough lubricant. I found that it was a good position to avoid a quick ejaculation.
You should try more with foreplay!
I also have from time to time problem to not be able to come when he is on top,but with longer foreplay everything is possible!
Usually when the girl is on top, the girl gets an orgasm first because you have to know how to be on top, you can rub the right way and at a pace where you can get an orgasm. If that doesn't work then the man can always get an orgasm before sex(whether you do it or he does) that way he would last longer.
If your man comes too quickly a good handjob or a little lip action can do the job. It will not only make him last longer during sex but will make him much more willing to take his time. If your not comfortable with giving head than tell him ahead of time that he should have a little fun on his own. He'll be okay wiht the idea as long as there is some form of sex waiting for him.
Hmmmm.... keep experimetnign. Do you masturbate using your g-spot? Do you even know where your G-spot is ? If so then try going on top of him with knowing where your g-spot is. Why does he not cumm? Try doggy style. That will work with the g-spot and he won't see your face cuz he is probly really nervous when he has the thought of pleasing you on his mind cuz when he is on top he is control and he has to be knowing what he is doing to get you off ... so he may be paying too much attention to that and not getting hiself off. So try doggy. Is he even ready?
OOOOOOOOOOO come too quickly i thought you said never cumms. Well he will have to learn how to conrtol his ejaculations when he is with you. Tell him to practice slowing down and holding it while masturbating and then tell him to try it on you. Just experiment... you areprobly young and it will come... or shall we say cumm... in no time:) Just be patient especially if he is new for you cuz new mates take time to get to know and get adjusted in each other's body, sexuality and positions so be patient for now... it will come with time.
I suggest you make sure he is good and hard first then slowly lower yourself down on him. Tilt yourself back and place your hands on the bed near his knees. This takes a lot of leg work and I've noticed that only some girls can get the rythem just right but make sure that you come up and then back down on him grinding your pelvis upwards on his pubic mound. Make sure that you don't put to much pressure but just enough on your clit it will drive you up the wall if you do it correctly. I've actually made a girl ejaculate in the position.
First off...is he using a condom? I found that I lasted longer with a condom on.
Second...maybe you should try with both of you lying on your sides and him entering you from behind. (Not anal sex though)
Try experimenting with different positions of variations of the positions you already do.
[QUOTE=Quote (lonely19yrold @ Mar. 31 2003,14:32)]First off...is he using a condom? I found that I lasted longer with a condom on.
Second...maybe you should try with both of you lying on your sides and him entering you from behind. (Not anal sex though)
Try experimenting with different positions of variations of the positions you already do.[/QUOTE]
would that not be kind of sore! i have not got much experience
Try more foreplay. You can orgasm before penetration if you wish, then he can cum in his own time.
Also, there are lots of other positions you can try to see which gives you the extra stimulation you need. When he is on top stimulate your clitoris with your fingers. I am surprised you can't get pleasured when you are on top, that is when you have the most control over position, depth, etc.
Here are a few links that might give you some ideas of what you can try ... Foreplay, Positions and Pleasing Women. I suggest you get him to read these too!
You might also want to check out the section on Premature Ejacualtion if that seems to be a problem.
Experiment and you will find what works for you both. Good luck!
[QUOTE=Quote (trudy @ Mar. 31 2003,14:36)]would that not be kind of sore! i have not got much experience[/QUOTE]
Not if you use enough lubricant. I found that it was a good position to avoid a quick ejaculation.
You should try more with foreplay!
I also have from time to time problem to not be able to come when he is on top,but with longer foreplay everything is possible!
If your man comes too quickly a good handjob or a little lip action can do the job. It will not only make him last longer during sex but will make him much more willing to take his time. If your not comfortable with giving head than tell him ahead of time that he should have a little fun on his own. He'll be okay wiht the idea as long as there is some form of sex waiting for him.
Hmmmm.... keep experimetnign. Do you masturbate using your g-spot? Do you even know where your G-spot is ? If so then try going on top of him with knowing where your g-spot is. Why does he not cumm? Try doggy style. That will work with the g-spot and he won't see your face cuz he is probly really nervous when he has the thought of pleasing you on his mind cuz when he is on top he is control and he has to be knowing what he is doing to get you off ... so he may be paying too much attention to that and not getting hiself off. So try doggy. Is he even ready?
OOOOOOOOOOO come too quickly i thought you said never cumms. Well he will have to learn how to conrtol his ejaculations when he is with you. Tell him to practice slowing down and holding it while masturbating and then tell him to try it on you. Just experiment... you areprobly young and it will come... or shall we say cumm... in no time:) Just be patient especially if he is new for you cuz new mates take time to get to know and get adjusted in each other's body, sexuality and positions so be patient for now... it will come with time.
I suggest you make sure he is good and hard first then slowly lower yourself down on him. Tilt yourself back and place your hands on the bed near his knees. This takes a lot of leg work and I've noticed that only some girls can get the rythem just right but make sure that you come up and then back down on him grinding your pelvis upwards on his pubic mound. Make sure that you don't put to much pressure but just enough on your clit it will drive you up the wall if you do it correctly. I've actually made a girl ejaculate in the position.