Not sure its in the right part of the forum but here goes:-
I'm a straight male (being gay is fine also). I thought to myself male nipples are a bit useless as mine seemed a bit lifeless and very unlikely to yield milk ! *LOL* So ladies with sensitive nipples get all the fun.
So I experimented by getting them squeezed etc and they became sensitive and this also tending towards erotic. I was surprised and delighted.
This is a very recent discovery, so I though how ignorant on such matters I am but there is bound to be informed folk who have ideas about this. So I found this forum.
Now its fun to involve my nipples in lovemaking, but the question is:-
Would it be more fun if my nipples were pierced ?
I've never had anything pieced, but if there a reasonable chance of increasing the fun in the bedroom, why not? (Not over struck on getting needles stuck in me etc but for a good reason I would)
A curious,
:confused::confused::confused:
T
If you've never had anything pierced before, then you are seriously jumping head first in to the deep end by having your nipples be your first piercing. Most of the fun piercings hurt for a very long time (months), and require daily attention for the first year or so or you'll be risking infection. After the first year or two of having a piercing, once everything is fully healed, things become much less painful and annoying. The only maintenance my cartilage piercing (top of your ear) requires nowadays is for me to give it a brief once-over in the shower when/if I remember to. When I first got it, it was a daily routine of cleaning it with Bactine, water, and qtips, every single day for a year.
Nipple piercings aren't for wimps, and they definitely aren't for anyone who has never had any piercing. You might talk yourself in to it anyway by saying "well, if it's too much I can just take it out". That might not be the case, look up something called a "keloid", which is generally something that can form if you remove a piercing while it is infected. Usually, once you get a piercing, unless you REALLY KNOW WHAT YOU ARE DOING, you are stuck with it until it's healed, only then can you safely remove it.
Of course, sitting down and chatting with your local friendly piercer would of course be a great step to take. They've done it hundreds of times and know exactly what can be expected and the exact time they would take to heal.
My suggestion is to have a chat with whoever will be doing the work, and if you're still convinced, get something simple pierced instead as your first piercing. If you don't get your nipples pierced you always can a year from now, but if you do them now and screw it up, you might not have nipples a year from now!
[QUOTE=spaced;272384]If you've never had anything pierced before, then you are seriously jumping head first in to the deep end by having your nipples be your first piercing. Most of the fun piercings hurt for a very long time (months), and require daily attention for the first year or so or you'll be risking infection. After the first year or two of having a piercing, once everything is fully healed, things become much less painful and annoying. The only maintenance my cartilage piercing (top of your ear) requires nowadays is for me to give it a brief once-over in the shower when/if I remember to. When I first got it, it was a daily routine of cleaning it with Bactine, water, and qtips, every single day for a year.
Nipple piercings aren't for wimps, and they definitely aren't for anyone who has never had any piercing. You might talk yourself in to it anyway by saying "well, if it's too much I can just take it out". That might not be the case, look up something called a "keloid", which is generally something that can form if you remove a piercing while it is infected. Usually, once you get a piercing, unless you REALLY KNOW WHAT YOU ARE DOING, you are stuck with it until it's healed, only then can you safely remove it.
Of course, sitting down and chatting with your local friendly piercer would of course be a great step to take. They've done it hundreds of times and know exactly what can be expected and the exact time they would take to heal.
My suggestion is to have a chat with whoever will be doing the work, and if you're still convinced, get something simple pierced instead as your first piercing. If you don't get your nipples pierced you always can a year from now, but if you do them now and screw it up, you might not have nipples a year from now![/QUOTE]
Gulp ! Guess that's what I needed to hear !
If it had a mega erotic plus then, the hassle might be worth it, but zero comment on that sends a sort of 'avoid like the plague' message !
Greatly appreciate the comment !
:):):)
T
Well the reason I didn't speak about the pleasurable aspects is that for most people the risks outweigh them. Practically every women I've been with has had her nipples pierced (among other piercings and body art, that's the stuff that I'm attracted to), and the response I get from them after just the slightest amount of nipple play makes it seem like a great piercing to get.
In fact, they are so good, that after my ex had her gallbladder removed she was far more upset over losing the piercings than anything else related to the surgery. As I'm sure you know, you can't have any metal on you when you go in for major surgery. In the 2 hours they were out the piercings healed too much. She had had them for about 3 years up until then.
So please, go have a chat with your piercer and get as much information as you can. Make an informed decision, and do as much research as you can.
Now that looks to me like very sound advice ! I'll go and chat to him at first opportunity.
:) :) :)
T
I have had just about everything pierced except vaginal piercings. It took my nipples almost 2 months to heal. I personally dont noticed a difference in sensitivity to arousal, but maybe more sensitive to pain if I'm not careful. They are very easy to get caught on things. My fiance loves them, but if he's not careful during sex he can get to rough and accidentally hurt them. All In all I love them, they are basically only decoration for me though ;)