Welcome to the SI101 Board and its Forums. I hope you will enjoy participating. Please begin by familiarizing yourself with the FAQs, the Posting Guidelines section, and especially the Index, all found at the top of the main screen. The Index contains links to helpful informative insightful, as well as how-to articles that discuss the most common questions and concerns people ask about--like yours. In addition, if you click on the site's Home Page you will find even more information.

I suggest reading every article and adding the information from each to what you already know. Knowledge is empowering. As for your question, please read Pleasing her orally for the first time

Oral stimulation is best accomplished after your partner has very highly aroused.

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Kivin Method article to start. Next:

How Do I Get Him/Her to Orgasm From a Hand/Blow Job?

I hope this will be of help. Got questions?

also what should be asked is does your girl have any thoughts or upbringings that make her think oral sex is dirty?

Remember that the most important sex organ is the brain. Talk to her, ask for advice. If the two of you are not used to talking intimately about sex, it may take some time to become comfortable communicating. When just starting to communicate it may be easier if you talk while just sitting together rather than during love making.