Hi Redrum,

I like everything my man does to me... but what I REALLY like, what drives me wild during oral sex is the following...

I love to have the "attention" focused on my clitoris, after a good deal of attention elsewhere first. Because the clit is so sensitive, sometimes going there first can be a bit of a "shock to the system"... don't know how to describe it.

I like to be nice and wet, and really enjoying it when my man licks my clit... it's the best. Variation in rhythym (sp?) is great for most women (unlike men) but when things get close to orgasm, try to keep a steady fast rhythym.

The second thing I love is to have a finger in my vagina, or circling my anus while being licked. Sucking the lips into the mouth is great too, but just remember they are sensitive too, just like the scrotum.

Hands all over, breasts, butt, legs, hips, but when getting near climax, either on my butt lifting me toward him, or on the area between my lips and my thighs, spreading me apart.

Remember that all women are different, but I think all women, like men, have those areas that are "keen" to touch, and turn on points

Enjoy!!

Hi
When my bf goes down on me, I like it when he first does a lot of teasing before hand. I like to just kiss for awhile, and have him move to my breasts, just fondling, then sucking them for a good deal of time.
I like him to finger me as well when he's sucking my breasts. Then I like him to move down to my stomach, and then down to my vagina. I don't like when he puts his fingers inside of me while he's sucking or licking my clit. I like all the attention to be on my clit. I love it when he explores with his tounge...kissing my thighs, and around my vagina, and my lips. (Another thing to watch out for is facial hair. It can get a bit scratchy against my clit, which sorta ruins the mood). Luckily, he usually does all that...except he likes to finger me while licking, which makes me feel like im gonna pee.

I love it when he lightly kisses and licks all around my pussy but not directly on my clit or lips, paying special attention to the upper thighs and anal region. Drives me mad with desire. I used to get so worked up I'd have to push his head away and masturbate. He figured this out and now sometimes handcuffs me beforehand. By the time he finally licks the "hot spots", I am primed for a mind-blowing orgasm.

I love it when he starts out kissing me on the lips and then then neck moving next to my breast kissing and licking and sucking on my nipples then moving down my stomach and finally to my vagina. I love it when explorers all over not always focusing on my clit. Licking all around my clit teasing me slowly and then with a slow circular motion start to tongue my clit then sucking my clit here and there. Explore my inner and out labia with his tongue and moving down and inserting his tongue into my vagina and moving his tongue in a come hither fashion then slowly moving up to my clit again and inserting his finger into my vagina what a rush. The only bad part is I usually can take it and want to have his cock inside me and have never actually came while having oral sex. It gets so intense that I can't take the stimulation anymore no matter how gentle he is. maybe one day, I'll keep trying though, too good not too. God it's got me wet just writing about it!
I know what I'll be begging for tonight

[QUOTE=Quote (Redrum781 @ May 10 2003,11:31)]For the girls, what technique worked best when your bf/gf performed oral sex.  I want to please my gf, i read the different techniques on what works in oral sex... but what do you prefer?  What made you really hot?[/QUOTE]
Now that you've gotten a bunch of responses you'll see that it could vary with the girl. So try new things but more importantly see what she reacts & responds to & ask her what she likes.

[QUOTE=Quote (laroxes @ April 25 2004,09:41)][/quote]
Tessie, he thinks that his fingering will make you cum.  Hold his hand or put it on your breast or better yet tell him that his tongue is the most thrilling thing to feel on your clit. Once he knows, you may find youself getting a tongue lashing more often.[/QUOTE]
I am thinking you missunderstood me and think I don't like it when he does this to me with his fingers. I love when he does this. If he does it right then I lose all control and can have very powerful orgasms.

To answer TexasGuy's second question. She most likely pushes your hand away because she is about to cum and the feelings are very intense.

What my hubby often does when I get like that is he will hold my hands down so I can't push him away. He is careful not to rub to hard and right when I am cumming will just firmly hold his hand in place as I cum all over it.

[QUOTE=Quote (laroxes @ April 25 2004,09:41)][/quote]
Tessie, he thinks that his fingering will make you cum.  Hold his hand or put it on your breast or better yet tell him that his tongue is the most thrilling thing to feel on your clit. Once he knows, you may find youself getting a tongue lashing more often.[/QUOTE]
I am thinking you missunderstood me and think I don't like it when he does this to me with his fingers. I love when he does this. If he does it right then I lose all control and can have very powerful orgasms.

To answer TexasGuy's second question. She most likely pushes your hand away because she is about to cum and the feelings are very intense.

What my hubby often does when I get like that is he will hold my hands down so I can't push him away. He is careful not to rub to hard and right when I am cumming will just firmly hold his hand in place as I cum all over it.

[QUOTE=Quote ]4.if ur licking her out then go through the alphabet with your tounge to see what diffrent strokes she likes[/QUOTE]

this is not written about much but let me tell you, a very light touch with the tip of your tounge, tracing an "A", "B", "C", etc with her clit at the base will drive her nuts. vary the letters and when she is starting to cum, use an "I" rapidly.

One other comment, for what it is worth, and has worked for me very well, has to do with a shaved pussy. Guys, surprise her and appear shaved for her. Let me tell you, gals don't like hair all that much and the additional oral I've received by showing her I care by shaving, is remarkable.

Enjoy.

[QUOTE=Quote (heartgirl @ May 12 2003,21:57)]The second thing I love is to have a finger in my vagina, or circling my anus while being licked.  Sucking the lips into the mouth is great too, but just remember they are sensitive too, just like the scrotum.

Hands all over, breasts, butt, legs, hips, but when getting near climax, either on my butt lifting me toward him, or on the area between my lips and my thighs, spreading me apart.[/QUOTE]
First of all, just reading this posting made a little pre-cum dribble out of my cock... I love thinking about and doing this for my wife! Especially sucking her labia into my mouth, and licking passionately around her anus. However, I do have two questions:

1) Are you girls saying that you prefer the guy to finish the job with his tongue, not his fingers? (generally I switch to my fingers in the last minute or so and make her cum that way)

2) Sometimes my wife frantically grabs my hand just as she's about to climax and either pulls it in or pushes it away, but either way I feel like I could increase the intensity of her orgasm a little more if she'd just let me continue fingering her for a few more seconds. It's almost like she's afraid to completely abandon herself fully to what could be a more intense orgasm. Any thoughts or advice, girls?

okay, what u got to remeber is that ever woman is diffrent. so your current gf might like things but another women will like other things more. that said

experiment just have fun. the tounge is great for pleasing a women, ask her what she likes you have to communite, practice makes purfect. (sure u will like that)

the main thing to do is ask ur partner what she like but heres a few hints ;)

1. dont rust it. mabye blind fold her (if she trusts you) so she cant see what your doing and tease her.

2. dont go for the clit straight away your women may like kissing slowly work your way down and kiss acrross her clit.

3. if ur not talking to her watch her body movements to see what she likes.

4.if ur licking her out then go through the alphabet with your tounge to see what diffrent strokes she likes

5.keep her in suspence but not too much or u will ruin it. and then give her what she wants ;)

alot of people have said teasing, thats the key my son!

hope it helps

-regards tilston

[QUOTE=Quote (Tessie @ April 25 2004,00:01)]What drives me nuts is when he stops licking and takes his hand using the tips of his fingers and rubs my clit very fast and not to hard. Just good enough to make me lose control.  [/QUOTE]
Tessie, he thinks that his fingering will make you cum. Hold his hand or put it on your breast or better yet tell him that his tongue is the most thrilling thing to feel on your clit. Once he knows, you may find youself getting a tongue lashing more often.

First off I agree about facial hair on both sides. Prickly hair just gets in the way.

I like my clitoris licked slow and gentle at first and my pussy fingerd until I am wet. Then I want a dildo inside me and him going to town on my clit.

What drives me nuts is when he stops licking and takes his hand using the tips of his fingers and rubs my clit very fast and not to hard. Just good enough to make me lose control.

You say facial hair can be scratchy against the clit & ruin the mood. The same can be said for the hair around your vagina. That's why I love it shaved so that my tongue can glide along the soft skin & my lips can kiss the smooth flesh. She loves to hold & squeeze my hand as she approaches a climax.