Not a guy but can offer my advice. i think just go 4 it take it slow and explore just make sure that u communicate with each other huni x If want ne technique advice wld try help. umm but wld say communication is the key. x

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Dear Curious brother:

Please read the following. The first is a post I contributed to the following thread on this forum:

" whats your best advice
sexyand17 "

The following is a copy of a message I sent by PM, earlier:

" > Also I'm a big fan of oral and she seems to not really like it that much, is there any way I can convince her to be more giving?

Here are some things that come to mind, some or all of which may be relevent.

* This is a brand new relationship and (full) trust has yet to be established. In addition, is a sense of being fully comfortable with you and this new level of intimacy.

* She may or may not be "into" oral. Time will tell.

* If she isn't, then you should have a discussion about what her thoughts and position are on the matter. Have this conversation at a time when the two of you are not planning to be intimate.

* She may not know how or what to do.

If she does enjoy oral and is just holding back, the reasons could be that she has yet to develop a level of trust and comfort; or, that she is saving this for later when this new relationship matures a bit more.

As for the trust and comfort is this: Does she know that you are clean and fresh? Until she knows that you bathed within a short time before making out, she is probably hesitant to place her mouth where there are likely to be sweat, grime, and bacteria. So, bathe if you are not doing so, and let her know that you are clean and fresh. The same holds true for her with you.

If she is hesitant about oral from a sanitary point of view, this is often misplaced female logic. The penis is as clean as any other part of the body, and, so too are the fluids that come out of it. If a person does not have an illness, then urine and precum and semen are as sanitary as saliva.

The two reasons men secrete precum is to cleanse the urethra and make it non-toxic to sperm; and, to act as an initial lubricant.

You need answers and she is the only source for them at this point.

It is not unusual for young women new to sex to think that oral sex is somehow "dirty" or a perversion. Nothing is further from the truth. There is nothing perverted about doing an activity that the two of you enjoy and is otherwise not harmful.

I would say ease into this. Will she let you stimulate her orally? Have you tried? You might want to begin with her before expecting her to begin with you. If she enjoys it then the next logical step is reciprocation.

If and when you do begin to stimulate her orally, and, knowing that she is new to this activity, you might want to begin by nuzzling her mons with your face and then lightly letting your tongue explor the folds of the upper Vulva. As she gains familiarity and a level of comfort, you can let your tongue follow your fingers down the slot to the juncture of the inner Labia. Suck and lick the lips before going to the clitoris. The whole point of this is to bring her along slowly rather than to just spread her legs and bury your mouth in her most private of parts that she may not be fully comfortable exposing to you, yet.

Regardless of the activity and whether it is something you are doing for her or her for you, give each other feedback on how you are responding. Do not hesitate to ask for what you want. Communication is key to having a great love life. Do not be squeemish or afraid to discuss any aspect of it. The same holds true for the rest of your relationship. "