i really want to tell my girlfriend how i want a blowjob, exactly. like...in full detail. i'm just worried she'll get upset at me because then she'll think she's not good enough at it. is there a good way of doing this??? i'm kinda stuck here.
Sun, 07/31/2005 - 01:55
#1
giving tips to my girlfriend
Here is the best way to go about this, in my opinion.
When you are going down on her, ask her to tell her verbally what she likes or what she would like you to do. Maybe ask her to masterbate in front of you so you see what kind of techniques she likes to use and follow her guidance.
Then switch roles when it's her turn to go down on you.
Maybe introduce it as a fun game. Tell him you were talking to a buddy and they said that him and his girl played a fun, kinda educational game they read about somewhere and then tell her you want to please her by her telling you exactly what feels good and then she does the same for you.
Make it appear that you just want pointers on how to please her better, which you should be working on first and foremost anyway. then you'll get the goodies yourself as well.
Always reward first so you get even better rewards second!
Ahahahhahah, me 2 man me 2. The bigger problem is with me, but when she either does HJ or BJ it dont feel that great. Personally Im a guy that likes to have the base of the penis head rubbed or given attention with the head being the focus, not the shaft.
Im tempted so tempted to give her my tips I use when I do myself, but Im also scared, but then shes getting frustrated for not making me feel good.
I think you should just kinda say as shes doing it like "ooo lower" or whatever you want.
I know your situation though man.