He likes the idea of people watching us.& To be completely honest...the idea is kind of intriguing to me.The only thing is,I don't want his friends to think I'm a "slut.":( & I'm only that type of girl with HIM.Idk if I should do it or not.
(Would love for this advice to come from another lady on here.)
if you really want to be infamous with porn clip then go a head! Imagine what if you broke up with this guy in couple years - you might be famous to the guys that wanting the same thing but not your husband!
You don't want to end up on the ex-gf sex video's on the net. Follow EEK on this issue, think about it, she is 100% right...!
The suggestion to go to a Swing Club to do this is one with which I STRONGLY agree because they know how to behave themselves in such situations and will most definitely NOT think of you as a "slut". No one will cause you any distress, in fact, you see others doing pretty much the same thing. Yes, I would know, being "experienced".
Do NOT do this in front of his friends. He's "showing you off" in a 'friendly' competition with his friends. "See what a freaky gf I have?" Your rep will be trashed.
Think of it like this: You are at home or at the beach and send a provocative picture or two to your boyfriend. He likes what he sees and decides to share with his friends who like what they see and decide to share with their friends, etc., et cetera, etc. So, what began innocently enough is now all over the internet.
So, do you think the two of you can control the audience members around you and whether or not one or more decide to snap keepsake pictures? Will you even know they took pictures until someone points them out on the world wide web?
Private matters should be kept private, would you not agree?
[QUOTE=dancingdoc2;271015]Think of it like this: You are at home or at the beach and send a provocative picture or two to your boyfriend. He likes what he sees and decides to share with his friends who like what they see and decide to share with their friends, etc., et cetera, etc. So, what began innocently enough is now all over the internet.
So, do you think the two of you can control the audience members around you and whether or not one or more decide to snap keepsake pictures? Will you even know they took pictures until someone points them out on the world wide web?
Private matters should be kept private, would you not agree?[/QUOTE]
I agree.I'm a major "lady in the streets,freak in the sheets," type person.
what are the friends doing and where are they going to be? can they masturbate in front of you two? are they going to be in the room or outside peeping in? things you need to talk about.
You should try to go to a swingers club. You don't have to join other people in sexual activity but they can watch you and your bf get it in and they are strangers you don't have to worry about his friends thinking your a slut
Only do what you feel comfortable doing?I tend to agree with Dancing Doc,what you think may be harmless fun between you,your boyfriend and a few of his friends may turn into a circus and you will end up majorly embarrassed or worse.
Just do that and enjoy the bj specially if u love to swallow and afterwards decide if u love it or not -for to do it again or not before the friends. One must try something to really know if u love that thing but it must be ur decision not his.
l do that sometimes a show bj my guy but with my own friends and only with only the friends of him that y really like but i required that those guys got his own gf that comes too for doin the same that lll do -bj- and agree if the gals will take others guys too and wll touch or be touched by others.
We have now a small group that we do that and we have end on swappin between us and also the gals between us.
l have never accepted to be on pics or cams or phones and not doi web show either
So far so good even that l have changed 4 times of bf since then and now l got also a gf thanks to all this cause l diiscovered that lm really bisexual and l enjoy gals even more than guys.
Hope that my experience will help u.
Good luck hun and only do what u want to do and be happy.
It comes down to, what's your comfort level? If exhibitionism is intriguing to you, there are ways to be exhibitionist without anyone you know around to make it more embarrassing. Fool around on the beach, in a grove at the golf course, in a park.....
Be very careful. It will get them excited, They will view you as a slut, and they just might take your willingness to show off as an invitation to a gang bang. You just might get more than you bargained for.