Are men willing to read a book on how to get a woman to enjoy anal sex by going through a 7 Night System to builds trust and pleasure through small and arousing steps?
Or do men only want to watch a movie on the subject?
What percentage of women do you think would read a book that is dedicated to pleasuring them and giving them full-body orgasms by combining stimulation of multiple erogenous zones simultaneously, that includes anal stimulation as one of the zones?
THE BOOK - AROUSE HER ANAL ECSTASY has become the second top selling book on Amazon.com in a month and half, out-selling the long standing leaders for the past two decades. Just do an all departments search for Anal Sex on Amazon. There is a video on the book on YoutubeCom/EroticFlow in the uploads section Best How To Anal Sex Guide So She LOVES IT.
Though who do you think is the main buyer men or women?
I'd say men, I don't think that women that hate the idea of anal will want to hear about it.
Perhaps that women wanting to know the secret of the multiple-zone stimulation and that loves anal will buy it though.
The title implies it's written for men: "arouse her". It is also written by a man. So that will probably aim for a certain group of buyers ;)
Other than that, I wouldn't know... I guess it depends on a the reader, for example:
-how dedicated you are to provide yourself and/or your partner with great pleasure.
-how confident and scared you are. Some people are just overly confident. Some even so afraid to hurt their own ego, they will not ask for advice. Perhaps the male ego is a bit more sensitive to that... Versus: some that are insecure, perhaps even: scared about the act itself. Since being the receiver makes the act more intrusive to your body and there is the question of possible pain, I guess it will likely be mostly women. Though there certainly are men afraid to hurt their partner.
-your attitudes towards sex. I've heard more than once how people don't want to "study" for something that is supposed to come naturally. Whereas others find it interesting and like to learn on the subject (knowledge is empowering!). Some like to have a manual; as short and clear as possible. Some will like to have advice and backgrounds; giving the opportunity to shift the advice and find their own way.
-personal preference in ways of learning. Do you learn best through reading, visuals, listening? Men tend to be a bit more visual.
-and off course interest and/or evoking interest. I can imagine how one that is interested in anal sex, will buy such a book to introduce the subject to his or her partner. It seems that mostly men initiate the question of anal sex.
And let's not forget; perhaps there are simply a lot of "couples" that buy this book :)
I wouldn't be interested in the anal stimulation and penetration part at all and would consider it disrespectfull and against my priciples and standards just having it in my home. This is another attempt by men to manipulate women into exploiting their bodies and getting them to accept sexual abuse and miss use of the human body against it's intended design. To me this would be no differant than trying to both convince and teach people how to abuse drugs, alcohol and even food ( yes, even food in our society has become a poison that has created the plague of obesity and diabetes ) .
When enough people start to practice unhealthy lifestyle choices, it impacts the entire society as a whole. When I think about how Sodom and Gomorah was distroyed, God sent a clear message that not only was the behavior abominable, but the health consequences to the surrounding communities could only be protected if the diseases created by the unhealthy behaviors practiced was eradicated and purged by fire. That's the only book I'm going to refer to when it comes to anal sex!!! That message is pretty clear to me.
Well, off course we can exclude those that are not interested in anal play to be buyers, no matter men or women ;)
I respect your views, dear Lisa. And even partly agree on how people seem to abuse their bodies in many ways.
But as far as I'm concerned, many have misused the word of God to do worse to women, men and children, than this book could ever do... How many have been murdered, tortured, raped and abused in His name? How many will lose their lives today? Though the Holy Book may be in the top 10 of books that bestow virtues, love and kindness and many have found comfort and support in these words... It is also in the top 10 of books that lead to mass murder and grew hatred deep inside our hearts. I'm sorry and genuinely sad to say this, but; if there are books that scare me, it would be those that are considered Holy Writings... :(