So I have never been able to get my boyfriend to cum all the way during head because we are usually short on time. Tonight though as it was happening he told me that he was about to cum. I aknowledge[sp] it and kept at it. I was expecting it to be right after that but he never did. Once again because his mom called. What I'm actually getting at is why didn't he "explode" even after he said he was going to. Did I end up doing something wrong or does it just take guys a little while...
sorry if this makes no sense.
May have just jumped the gun. I used to do that alot, like it gets really really good, but then the sensation drops a bit and builds up...my ex used to go down on me, and i would have to warn her twice, since usually the second time was when it was really coming...no pun intended:p
Ok thanks. lol.
> I have never been able to get my boyfriend to cum all the way during head because we are usually short on time. Tonight though as it was happening he told me that he was about to cum. I aknowledge[sp] it and kept at it. I was expecting it to be right after that but he never did. Once again because his mom called. What I'm actually getting at is why didn't he "explode" even after he said he was going to. Did I end up doing something wrong or does it just take guys a little while.
It would appear that two competing situations happened at about the same time: First, you were short on time, Mom telephoned; and second, something with the stimulation probably changed. So, having his attention divided between pleasure and the clock, being distracted with Mom, and possibly having the stimulation shift just enough from what it takes to get to and beyond the point of no return all contributed.
Expanding on whether or not you did anything wrong, I would first say: not necessarily; second, if the type of stimulation we give our partner is off by just a little from what s/he is used to and requires then the orgasm either fails to occur, or if it does, is often not what was expected A critically important key to stimulating each other correctly is feedback. This can be verbal or non-verbal. When we masturbate, we benefit from an internal feedback that allows us to monitor and modulate our movements. This is missing when the reins are turned over to our partner yet can be replaced by communication. This has been covered in one or more articles available on the forum.
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