I'll let the girls and women speak to giving head for you sweet-honey.  But, when I was a teen guy I asked questions of the guys like the one you are asking here of the girls.  You know....about eating her out.  They would only say..."don't knock it if you ain't tried it".  It really didn't answer my question though.

I met a girl a few years later who I learned to do it with and to tell you the truth I thought I was going to "barf" the first time I did it with her.  Fortunately she was on top of me just sucking away and having a good ol time on me.  I remember looking into her sex for a minute as I held her pelvis in my hands and thinking.......well, I'll prolly be doin this a lot now so I better get used to it.  I can still see it in my memory...kinda like what Brandye is telling you about getting her first mouth full.  

Try to think of it as a big step in growing.  There are flavored condoms for the girls now.  The HIV and AIDS problem has made swallowing a dangerous thing since the eighties.  In a healthy body, his orgasm wouldn't be harmful to you....but nowdays you just don't know.  

As a guy it feels so good to have a girl suck you all the way....and her appear to enjoy swallowing you like it is a treat she enjoys.  These girls may suggest to you that they may not enjoy it as much as they act, but they like the effect
it has on their man when they give him pleasure.  

Most young people don't seem to think to look around them at the older people and wonder how many of them do it.  They would really be suprized at how many around them do though.

eDJ

The first time I got a mouthful, it was an accident. It was way gross; I coughed, gagged, hacked and generally went nuts. I still do not like the taste nor the consistency, but I really like giving the pleasure (and getting the control). Do not tell the guys that last part.

Keep doing hand jobs if that is what you are comfortable with. Try a few kisses or a light suck but keep in ind, especially with younger men, that thing can go off at any time. You may want to do it with a (dry) condom. The latex does not taste real good but you need not get a mouthful.

When and ifyou decide to do him fully, try to protect your gag reflex. What makes us gag is usually no the taste or sliminess, it is the first powerful squirt striking the back of your throat on the soft palate. I keep a finger against him behind his scrotum and a thumb lightly on the base of his penis. You will be able to feel the ejaculation begin. At that point, press the back of your tongue against the roof of your mouth. This will protect the gag reflex.

Is it gross? It was for me until I learned to make it part of my repertoire. It seems to bring great pleasure and that is part of love making. Looking at it another way, if I want him to go down on me (especially during my period - which I adore), I better be willing to go down on him.

As all others have said, at your own pace. Do not rush it and if you think it seems gross, wait until you are ready.

You take it at your own pace. If you want him fresh from the shower then tell him so. You make the rules. And when your comfortable you push the limits and see whatelse about it you like.

I used to have to have water to swallow cum. I don't now. I used to hate it if he tried to push my head down onto him, now I love it. It takes years of practice, maturity and a willingness to do what you can to please your partner.

I agree with you Oberon on the smell of a man. Nothing better in my opinion.  

BabyBlue you are SO right, and so is demonbuttercup.  It can be personal preference, but having the right partner is MOST important.  I just hate it when guys grab the back of my head and try to force it.  As far as I'm concerned- and I'm going to be somewhat graphic- that's a good way to get your dick bitten.   I don't mind directions (or someone just running their hand through my hair), but I am the one driving, so they need to just sit back and enjoy the ride.

Now as far as smell and taste, (I hope this doesn't sound "gross"...lol), I like a certain "masculine" smell.  I think it's a big turn-on.  I don't mean B.O., but there's just a manly smell.  Taste... well, try it, see if you like it, and if not, spit. lol

Well, as everyone else has said, it is completely your choice whether you want to or not. I couldn't wait for the opportunity to give my boyfriend head, and that really surprised him. But we have an agreement: however "into the moment" he may be, he's never allowed to try and force me or anything...because I will bite it off. It works well to have that agreement. I personally don't mind swallowing. In fact, I've never really considered spitting because there was never any place available.
Also, I have heard, but not tested, that eating pineapple changes the taste.
Good luck on any and all future endeavors you partake in!!

--Jack =)

It’s important to find a loving and supportive partner, then giving oral might be something you want to try and explore.  
I am sure many girls have had nightmare experiences where guys have expected it, pushed you head disrespectfully, not told you when they are going to cum and expect them swallow, and not kept themselves clean, that would put any woman of forever.  and let me stress, it's a woman choice whether she swallow or not, she does not have to. In fact you should practice safe sex if you are not in a long term relationship by using condoms.

It’s important to sexually explore with a person who will respect you and who you can trust.
Personally I love giving oral, I would be sad if I couldn’t do it to my boyfriend, but I also appreciate that other people don’t like to do it, its personal choice.  
I would say…don’t knock it till you try it, but if you do try it…like I said before, try it with someone who will be supportive and respectful of you.

its all personal preference.
Some girls LOVE it, some can't stand it.
I don't mind it really, if he's not too sweaty down there lol.
Also, I don't care for him cumming in my mouth. I've tried several times to let him and as soon as he does, I gag. To me it tastes like a mouthful of thick seawater, lol.
Some girls LOVE the taste of cum.
I do like giving him the pleasure tho, it feels empowering at times knowing you can please someone that much.
Some say you do it anyways to please your partner. It's all in what YOU want to do.