Okay so i was wondering if it is easier for girls to cum the scond and third time while having sex, foreplay, or even masterbating I ask this because my girlfriend cums really quickly when were having sex, and i take a bit longer...a lot longer to be honest, and she is so sensitive afterwards that i need to slow down or even stop thrusting all together and i usually start to get out of the "mood" I dont know if i should maybe finish her with oral or manually once or twice so that she becomes a bit desensitized or if this would just cause her to come faster.
Sat, 09/01/2007 - 18:22
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For Girls....Easier the second time?
Once more: she is sensitive because the nerve endings are tingling and excited - have her just relax, breathe deeply, and let the feeling roll and she'll orgasm again and again and again.
LADIES: do not confuse this "excited" period with pain - that's just a bit of confusion - take a deep breath, relax all tension from your body and mind, then keep moving with him - that's the way you become multi-orgasmic.
MEN: just back off a bit but continue what you were doing perhaps adding a caressive quality or element into your style at this point. Do NOT stop however. Be encouraging.
The more you do this, the easier it becomes to orgasm; from the first time to the 40th. BTW -there is no limit to how many times a woman can orgasm so stopping at 2 or 3 seems like "is that all there is?" to me.
There is no relationship. Some of us are most receptive right after orgasm; others are too sensitive to stand thrusting for a few minutes after. Use the same recommendation I gave at your other recent post. It will lubricate better and help prevent pregnancy.
I might suggest if she is too sensetive, try having her finish you off with oral or her hands. Or maybe you guys have focus on you during foreplay a bit more so you can try orgasming before her. Though i suggest the first one.
If say my b/f makes me orgasm during foreplay w/ oral or whatever...and then maybe I give him some attention and then we start sex... yes it's harder for me to orgasm a second time... not sure why. Everything down there just doens't seem as "tingly"