The keys are:
1. IT IS A FANTASY and as such any roughing up you do should be a good job of acting so that it appears to be rough but isn't.
2. That for all your acting, you each have a word that when spoken brings everything you are doing to an immediate stop--no question, no delay. The word should be something that is not used in normal conversation.

This can be a dangerous fantasy. No woman wants to be raped and for her to want to play around with being violated can be a dangerous thing to act out, especially without a lot of forethought.

Maybe someone else will but I'm not even going to dignify this with an answer.

[QUOTE=crispin153;160474]But what are somethings to make it come true.[/QUOTE]

What do you mean exactly?

do you mean, what can you do to make the fantasy happen as a fantasy? or maybe some ideas? please clearify the question

well only do it if you are both comfortable, and well... ask her if there is anything else in the fantasy, like certain kinds of places... some girls may like it done as a home invasion, some might like as they are walking home/to work or something... like a park, or empty field... talk to each other about it all first off, ideas should come easily once you understand her fantasy more

truthfully I think she just wants u to be a stranger and not take no for an answer. tell her what to do like "bend over now! "take your f-ing pants off" "look at me" things like that. DONT get too rough with her!

Okay, first of talk about it a lot with her.

Second when you know what she means, make it a suprise, much more exciting that way. Try not to catch her at the wrong time.

Talk Dirty, not necessarily commandingly.
Ex "I'm gonna ---- my ----- in your ----, and then ..."

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This can be a dangerous fantasy. No woman wants to be raped and for her to want to play around with being violated can be a dangerous thing to act out, especially without a lot of forethought.[/QUOTE]

I must agree.
When i was young (17) i wanted to be raped.....me and my boyfriend "fantasy" played it and over a period of 6 months it became real. Needless to say, the last time we had sex he truly and completly raped me....because he thought "i wanted it" no matter what i said.

Be careful, anyone who explores this type of role play.

make sure you know whether she really wants it to seem like an *actual* rape, or if she just wants you to be agressive. i too like agressive sex, like when my husband grabs me and throws me onto the bed then pins me down, but there's a big difference between that and acting out a rape.

Safe word, safe word, safe word. You need to discuss this beforehand, and go over what's okay, what's not. Agree on a safeword, and no matter what, ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS stop when she says it. I would also occassionally ask her if she's ok during it.

totally agree! there has to be a word that she would never say normally like rainbow or something. and if she says it you must stop immediately!!

I was actually thinking about that earlier when I was posting, about not being able to speak. I think some sort of action would be a good idea, but if she is bound and gagged, that wouldn't really be possible either. My advice would be to hold off on activities that prohibited speaking for awhile, maybe when you both have become very comfortable with each other.

Rule #1 of any kind of dominating fantasy. Use safe words. Make it something silly, and something unmistakable. You would want to use any words that might sound like "no" or "stop" or "quit". I think the example word in the pamphlet that came with my rope suggested "banana".

This kind of fantasy is something that should definitely be led up . You should not just "rape" her one night out of the blue. Take baby steps. Start out with something like just holding her hands down. See how she likes that, and then move onto something a little bigger. Maybe the next time, you can duct tape her hands and/or feet. Eventually, you will be able to stage the whole "rape". You could sneak in her while she's sleeping, and take her by force. Just make sure you talk to her about it and get the dates and times of when she wants to right.

Also, sit down and talk with her about this more and in detail. Communication is key. Ask her what exactly she wants to happen. She may only want certain things to happen. When it comes to fantasies like this, you want to take extra precaution in what you do or say. You don't want to say or do something that at any time makes her feel unsafe.

As far as ideas, I'd definitely discuss anything with her before you try it to set strict limits in place. Does she want to be held or tied down? Blindfolded? How does she want to be spoken to? Is there a specific room that she'd like it to take place in? A certain position she'd like to be in?
Find out exactly what she means by roughed up. Spanked? Pushed around? Being extra vigorous?
As many others have said, a safe word is vital. However, just as a side note, if she is unable to properly speak for whatever reason e.g. oral sex or having a hand over her mouth, perhaps a physical sign like snapping or something would also be a good idea as an extra precaution.

suprisingly my girlfriend likes this idea also, but if she does say stop listen carefully to her body and facial expressions, if she says it in a "stop, not really i want you to keep going" way keep going but go slow to make sure it's what she wanted. if she says it forcefully, of course you know how your girlfriend acts so you are the key person to depict whether it's the first or second one. some things you can do that i tried was hold her arms over her head firmly, kiss her neck, and if you can pull her shirt up with your mouth (im happy i got the bra off with my mouth ^_^). then you can put both her wrists in one of your hands and use your other hand to take her clothes (i.e. pants, skirt, panties) off. it's all you from there buddy.

hope it helped, and it isn't just her who likes this fantasy, plenty of females i know like it. i believe it's more about getting taken control of rather than rape. which is serious