Ok, well me and my gf have been going out for a year already, and me and her talked about having sex. Well before having sex, we used to do the little things, oral sex, masturbating togetha, showering ,etc. And now I asked her if we can go to the next level because Im ready to have sex and loose my virginity to her and she is a virgin to. Well last friday night, me and her had sex for the first time and it was a good experience. Well all week she has been avoiding me, not answering my calls, and one of her friends told me she was uncomftorable being around me after sex. Why would she be uncomftorable, help.
Sun, 03/25/2007 - 00:09
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Girlfriend Problem With New Sex
this may sound like bull but the relationship is different now - you guys had an experience you'll never be able to duplicate and now that you've done that - where do you go from there? you took the 'next step' so now you're at a plateau
not really a solution but COULD be an explination - i wouldn't say 'confront' her but talk to her about it
Perhaps she is having a difficult time coming to terms with having intercourse? Maybe it's not what she thought it would be? Maybe she is embarrassed? Perhaps she really was not ready? Why avoid you? No clue, I would think she would rather talk to you about it but sometimes women are a bit odd.
Yes, you should talk to her, that's really all you can do.