there's always a chance that the condom was broken, however, i doubt that anything could have come from fingering her after you removed it. you'll both just have to wait it out, and i highly suggest that she see a doctor to get on birth control so you don't have this scare again.

she could be stressing herself out of having a period (yeah a girl can skip having her period if she's that stressed), there are pregnancy test of there that can detect early pregnancy i suggest taking that, and if it comes up negative wait a while long and take another test.

> her period hasnt came yet.. she hasnt missed it.. but shes around the time and it hasnt come yet.

Are her monthly cycles regular? If they are still coming at irregular intervals then I would not be worried yet. Also, do you know what days of the month you had intercourse with respect to her fertile period? One or both of you should probably be aware of when this period happens.

Wash your hands, do not rely upon wiping them.

Every woman when becoming sexually active goes through the stage of constantly wondering whether she has become pregnant. Some, such as I, decide that sweating the period is too stressful to justify the typicallu lousey sex of beginners. Your g/f may decide this.

SSocial and psychological maturation of a woman includes accepting that to have a sex life requires that we take certain risks. We then develop a comfort with the constant, low-level risk of pregnancy. We, of course, take the precautions to reduce the likelihood to arisk level acceptable to each of us.For a sixteen yo, the risk is high and many lives get screwed up; for a twenty-six yo, the risk is acceptable and she likely has thought through what the alternatives are.

I don't know if this is relevent, but after I had sex for the first time, it was 8 weeks before my next period, when it was normally 5 or 6.