I think all girls are a bit embarrassed at first. Ask her why she thinks its ugly. Then ask her if she's ever seen one other than hers. If she hasn't then maybe MAYBE if she's interested in seeing what most of them look like, show her a magazine like hustler or whatever. Or heck, do a google images search for vagina or other keywords. Then make sure to let her know that none are exactly the same but that sure as heck doesn't make hers ugly. Then give her some time to think... we chicks love to do that haha. I'm sure she'll open up eventually...
Or do what my ex did... If you're going to have sex.. go into the foreplay and start kissing and licking down her body (slowly mind you or she might freak) hopefully she'll be so distracted by pleasure that she'll lose that modesty

You could always wear a blindfold... ;)

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Or do what my ex did... If you're going to have sex.. go into the foreplay and start kissing and licking down her body (slowly mind you or she might freak) hopefully she'll be so distracted by pleasure that she'll lose that modesty[/QUOTE]

That's what usually always works! Once they're caught up with how pleasurable it feels of you slowly kissing, breathing, and taking your time on her (letting the sexual tension build up), it takes their mind off of details, embarrassment, and being uncomfortable (at least in my experience with girls in the past)! I wouldn't suggest you show her a porn magazine; you may ruin your chances all together in my opinion. If it's still an issue, or if SHE brings it back up, encourage her to search/google for herself if she's that interested. You may want to get as far out the picture as possible concerning "the discovery of vigina images" issue!

I wouldnt personally suggest a hustler or playboy. I was looking at my boyfriend's recently and found them to look...to perfect. Im not talking about the girls bodies, either... Their 'special parts' looked airbrushed to perfection. Has anyone else noticed this or am I just way too abservent?

Anyways... I used to be squeemish about my boyfriend being down there too, and made him keep the lights off and whatnot to ease embarrassment. But he told me how beautiful I was and how much I turned him on, and well, I didnt have anymore doubts. Im not so iffy about letting him go down on me anymore. I love it, and he tells me he does too. It makes me feel sexy.

[QUOTE=Justin M]hey ive been going out with my new girlfriend for a few months now and she wants me to have oral sex with her but she feels imbarresed about her vagina, she thinks it looks ugly and dosen't want me to see it can you give me any advice to make her feel more comfortable about it?[/QUOTE]

I feel the same. Your girlfriend is most likely scared that she will smell and you will be turned off by that or that she will taste bad and you won't like it. I don't exactly find my privates attractive but not many women do actually. Basically the only thing I can tell you is to give her reassurance. Don't just come out and say "NO YOUR VAGINA WON'T STINK, IT'S OKAY!" Because.......yeah, that'd be weird, but just hint at her and reassure her and it should all be okay. I finally gave into my boyfriend and he said that he liked my taste and I asked "Are you lying?" and he said no. If you're scared that she will stink/taste bad then maybe take a shower with her (if possible) beforehand or something.