My girlfriend and I have done oral a couple of times, but she gags soooo much. I'll admit, she has a weak gag reflex. And it's not only with oral. She gags when she eats something that doesn't taste too good (she's even thrown up a couple of times.) Anyway, I've tried everything. I've tried having her puff out her cheeks and make pumping noises. I've had her try licking stuff off of the penis. I've let her play around with my penis (the first time we did it, I gave her a while to get familiar and explore with her hands and mouth). I'm thinking I might have to shave my pubic hairs, cause that's the last solution that I really don't wanna do cause it gets itchy and the stubble ughhh, but I will to make her stop gagging. Will this work? She still wants to please me and she's said she really wants to try it again, though, and that brings in another issue. She can't get the pumping motion down. I mean, I've accidentally finished in her mouth before, but she wants to try that again for real. Can I try masturbating in front of her while she watches (again, sorry) to show her how to pump the penis?
Thu, 02/11/2010 - 18:04
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Girlfriend has a big problem with gagging...


Okay - stop with the shaving etc - STOP MOVING. The number one reason women gag is he's moving his hips, he's holding onto her head and facefucking, or even just trying to help - DON'T. Let her do it.
If she can't deep throat, sorry, but that is just how it is. Not everyone can and you woulldn't enjoy having something continually rammed down your throat, right? Perfection is not required to please. Relax and enjoy what she is willing to give you.
Get some dry (non-lubricated) poly condoms. That eliminates the threat of a big spurt. If the gagging is still there, that is the way it is. If she can swallow normally, she will not starve and there will likely be nothing to do about it.