My girlfriend and I recently started having sex. We were both virgins and she doesn't really hurt anymore but she doesn't get any enjoyment out of it. She just lays there or goes through the motions. I don't know what I'm doing wrong but it's frustrating to know I'm not doing anything for her. I always get her off before we have sex and she enjoys that but the sex part does nothing for her. Any help?
Tue, 05/15/2007 - 21:30
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Girlfriend gets no pleasure...
Maybe you should try to incorporate into your love making an orgasm for her during rather then before.
Yeah I agree w/ Sera... sometimes my b/f will get me off w/ oral beforehand. Sometimes I can orgasm again... sometimes if I have had one orgasm...everything just "shuts off" and no matter how hard I try...it can't happen again.
I like when my b/f does oral on me till I am like sooo close...then just starts pounding..that usually gets me over the top.
A week ago I lost my virginity, it hurt lil bit, and today again we had sex again, it hurt lil bit,but still i could enjoy it ( lil bit:)) But i enjoy oral sex more than that, i enjoy fingers more than that. I think it is because new, it hurts lil bit, i think it is the same thing with your gf. Just be patient