Instead of ten thousand words of instructions, let me urge you to have a look at the 3D animated illustrations. Click on the Cowgirl section by going to the site's Home page.

There are other women superior positions, so look around.

What is great about these is that they place the woman's pieces-parts in constant contact with the man's pubic mound thus providing pretty constant friction. You can "grind" in a circular movement, rub back and forth, and/or raise and lower your torso up and down the length of his penis.

As always, explore and learn together.

Your not alone being on top is one of those positions that's never done anything for me. I think its actually got an undeserved rep, you know kind of a feminist girls on top angle!!

I find it a bit tiring and awkward trying to get in the right postion, I don't do it anymore and I really used only do it with new partners that I was getting used to shagging.

There was a long thread on this awhile ago. The search function should be able to find it.

I love goin going on top, it really turns my man on....I love leaning right back and playing with his balls and ass while grinding his cock.....mmmm yummy

I Love being on top.. and my boyfriend loves it as well.. and it's one of the best ways I get off because I'm in control. I like to lean forward some and instead of going up and down on his cock i go up and down with his body.. and the sensation is irresistable. :)

Straddle him gently at first, with your legs situated at his sides. Grind your hips slowly and while practicing, don't let him thrust upwards so you will learn the right pace for you. Try watching porn, you'll have a wider idea about it from those.