Well my and my girlfriend don't really get to mess around, because we just can't, but when we do, we try to do everything that the other wants. I always go down on her but its rare for her to go down on me, oh...... did i mention, thats my biggest turn on!!!! She says its the taste, but other than that she would. she has made me feel bad, because I feel she is rejecting a part of me, and i really want her to go down there, I have told her over and over again that if she wants to stop going down there then okay, but she says no, that she will get use to the taste. Can somebody please, tell me what to do to help her get use to it!!!
Wed, 12/29/2004 - 09:26
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there are really no good tips at recieving..lol but communication is the best thing you can do for her..tell her what feels good and what dosen't and when you find something that does tell her to keep continuing on until you cum.. everything takes practice, and the more you do it the better at it you become.. I never use to like giving blow jobs until i met my recent b.f ... for some reason I can't get enough of his penis..I dunno if you girls know what Im talking about when I say he has a beautiful cock..lol I guess its the whole package, its shape,size,taste its all amazing and i find myself going down on him all the time..OH well I don't hear him complaining..and I even asked him do you think I give you head to much..LOL man what a dumb ? that was huh..lol
anyways he didn't seem to think so ..
oops im rambling..I must be extra horny tonight
ok well carry on..
My girlfriend and I just had the same problem. She wasn't going down very far and I don't think my cock tasted funny or anything. But she gagged. Normally I wouldn't be all that worried; I could get on with out blowjobs. but I get the feeling she really wants to give me successful head. One other thing that might have been a factor was she was down there for over 20 minutes and I still didn't ejaculate. Are there any tips or things I can look out for to be a good reciever of fellatio?
[QUOTE=Quote (Pappa Bear @ Dec. 29 2004,03:26)]Well my and my girlfriend don't really get to mess around, because we just can't, but when we do, we try to do everything that the other wants. I always go down on her but its rare for her to go down on me, oh...... did i mention, thats my biggest turn on!!!! She says its the taste, but other than that she would. she has made me feel bad, because I feel she is rejecting a part of me, and i really want her to go down there, I have told her over and over again that if she wants to stop going down there then okay, but she says no, that she will get use to the taste. Can somebody please, tell me what to do to help her get use to it!!![/QUOTE]
I love going down on my b/f and he likes doing me. I gotta admit I was a little scared at first (my first b/f and both were virgins), but he was great about it. I started just tasting his precum a little bit and liked it and now I swallow his cum and I love it. I guess everybody's different. I'd say keep doing it the way your doing, like reassuring her that its okay either way. You sound patient. I got used to the taste and I love it.
I get turned on just by my guy telling me there is pre-cum on his head! This is usually when we're not together...we're on the computer or the phone. Makes me just want to lap it up! At least she's willing to try... Honestly, I've only recently gotten into swallowing and love it now! I just hope she doesn't take as long as me to get used to it!
It depends on the guy whether or not I like his precum. If the guy is consistent on keeping clean then I love giving him head and everything that comes along with it. No pun intended.
I don't mind precum.
I'm not really sure my guy has any cause honestly, I've never seen it, but I don't consider it a turnoff or have a problem with it.
So why do girls not like the pre-cum?
Hey thanks, I will try that, I really want her to enjoy going down on me, I'll admit it does hurt me when ever she gags, because she makes me feel like if she is rejecting a part of me, but its not the sperm she gags on, its the pre-cum that she gags on. I never nutted in her mouth. She says she wants to try it but I tell her not to. If she can't handle the pre- I think she would'nt be able to handle the real one. But I know that it will take time, I love her, And I am willing to wait. Hey thanks for the food advice, and the lotion one to. I'll try the both of them out.
Or use some food, like whipped cream or chocolate syrup. Yummy!
Drink Papaya or Pineapple juice to improve the taste of your cum and have something at hand for her to drink as soon as you cum in her mouth so she can wash the taste out of her mouth. It does take some getting use to.
Well it's wonderful that you go down on her and it's great that she is trying to go down on you.
It is unfortunate she is having a tough time. We know she wants to please you, but if she's getting a little gaggy and grossed out, it's no fun for anyone.
How about going and getting some edible motion lotions? You can buy then online or at your local sex toy shop or even Spencer stores (found in some malls).
Get some sample sizes and give them a go.. hopefully she'll find one she likes!
At my local sex toy shop, you can buy just samples for $1
You can improve the taste of your cum by what you eat.
Things like coffee and other bitter things can make it taste horrible.
While things like sugar and fruits and vegetables can make it taste more sweet.
I think there's some topics on here about that. Try searching for it.
Hey, thanks for the replys. What do you mean about the whole " How to improve the taste of your cum " thing, were you just jocking or is this for real? You got me curious now.....
Try it with a (dry) condom until she becomes accustomed to the mechanics of the process.
I dislike the taste and consistency of semen and think that many (most) women do. What gags us however, and this is a major fear (that we will gag, cough, sputter and makes fools of ourselves) is not the taste. The taste and consistency can be accepted after a while but what causes the gagging is the first strong shot hitting our soft palates. A good technique is to hold a finger against the back of the scrotum where the first contractions of the ejaculation begin. As soon as this is felt, press the back of the tongue against the roof of the mouth. This protects the gag reflex.
Well, if it's the taste of your penis that is bothering her, you should take a shower (together, if possible
) before she goes down on you. If it's the taste of the cum, then I recommend you to take a look at some old topics about "How to improve the taste of your cum?" etc.