Two answers:

1. We women do not dress to impress men nearly as much as we do to impress other women. So, we notice other women and hope that they (favorably) notice us. Sorry guys, that is how it is. She is now comfortable enough with you to share these observations.

2. Many more of us are bi- or, at least, bi-curious than you guys realize. That, too, is the way it is.

Now, you decide.

Doesn't have to be she is bi if she notices girls.It is just we like to watch how other girls look like,how they are dressed and how they act.It is just something i cannot explain but that doesn't mean she is bi.
But if you want to know you can also ask her!

I tend to point out beautiful women when I'm with my bf. I read playboy, too. I just think women are beautiful, but I don't want to have sex with one.

I agree with Delta. I think women are beautiful but I don't want to "sleep" with them. I guess it all goes back to being competative and wanting to look better then eachother. Hence all the makeup, clothes, shoes and surgery procedures available....

she is probably just observing these women
really, if a woman has big breast, men are not the only ones to notice it...women do to...
if a girl is pretty, we notice it too...it has nothing to do with sexuality....just observations

[QUOTE=Quote ]I don't believe that she is bi or homo, but I do believe that she has a fantasy or a curiosity. I have seen her get turned on by girl-girl porn before, but then she claims that porn is gross. I don't know what to think. This girl is the most normal person that you could ever meet. She defiantly dosen't look or act gay at all.[/QUOTE]
At the risk of sounding un-PC, I will admit that there are many gay and bisexual people who fit into their stereotypes all but perfectly. At the risk of sounding PC, I will add that there are many gay and bisexual people who don't fit their stereotypes at all. Many of these people are the most normal people you could ever meet. There really is no way to be sure of another person's sexual preference simply based on his or her outward appearence and behavior.

You can find a landscape or a flower beautiful without being sexually or romantically attracted to it. The same applies to people. In my experience, women are generally more comfortable than men in observing that a member of the same sex is attractive or sexy. I think this is because there is less stigma against homosexuality and bisexuality in women than in men, so women are less worried about being labled as gay (whether or not they actually are). In other words, the fact that she notices other women's beauty does not prove that she is bisexual.

On the other hand, it is quite possible that she is bisexual. If she is bi, her most likely reason for not telling you is fear of rejection. If you want her to open up, you should make it clear that you are okay with the possibility of her being bisexual.

I'm sure if she ever hooks up with another girl, I will never hear about it.

that sounds more like a matter of her trustworthyness than her sexuality. bisexual people are not more likely to cheat on their partners than heterosexual people.

to be honest, i have always heard tht women checking out other women is perfectly normal. I, myself, find certain women attractive. I am not bi or gay but I still find them attractive. I've also heard tht lesbian porn turns women on more than regular, straight porn does. I personally am more turned on by women having sex with other women. I also do want to sleep with a woman out of curiosity.... but I'm not gay. I'm just curious.

I also get more turned on by girl-on-girl porn--but that's because I am 100% bisexual!

just because a female hugs or kisses another female or finds them attractive doesn't mean they want to have sex with them.

acting on the attraction that we have is what makes the difference between being bisexual/bicurious and just simply finding someone attractive.

i agree with the person that said that most women are all bi-sexual or atleast bi-curious to a point. but a lot of us just don't act on the insticts we have and that's what separates us.
i'm not saying being bi or gay is bad cause i used to be fairly bicurious myself but i determined that i would much rather have a man than a woman....whether it be relationship wise, sex wise, or even friend wise. i just get along with males better on many levels.

>>2. Many more of us are bi- or, at least, bi-curious than you guys realize. That, too, is the way it is.<<<

hmmm really? I mean that would be shocking. I mean knowing that most girls are more or as much as interested in men seems to be amazing for me.
If I imagine that my gf is rather thinking of women than of me then I don't know what to think of that.
Also should I now see behing all those girls hugging and kisses the secret wish of having sex with the other girl?
sorry but I have a hard time to understand the female sexuality...

THANK YOU! geee, i was tryin to say that.. but just didn't have the words :P Thanks hun
And its soooo true

I have been keeping up with the posts and responses for quite some time now, and I must say that I am very impressed with most of the responses to the questions on this forum. I find them inciteful and informative.

With that being said, I feel that I have to add to Ladyofluciddepth's response. Most women that I have come in contact w/ say that while they are not bi/lesbian, they are attracted to other women b/c of the intimacy they share with one another. By "intimacy" I don't mean just "being inside her". That's sex. Intimacy is being able to KNOW what the other person is feeling and UNDERSTANDING why she feels the way she does. Being intimate is more than sex. To be intimate, a person has to be willing to give a part of themselves to achieve intimacy.

Mars, please don't be offended b/c a woman "knows" what makes your gf Hot. It's simply not about you

oh... yea, i knew what i meant, umm.. in porn i meant.. a man and woman usally don't seem as intimate? well they do sometimes.. but alot of the time they don't

so basically a man should know also very well what to do with another man then right?

more intimate... bei ng... i duno like a woman, usally knows what to do with a woman... they know the "spots" because they experience it themselves, so.. sometimes when i see women.. together, its like they have that natural ability to just get straight to exploreing? but really they arent? its more.. instinct.. and seems more intimate.. i duno if that makes sense...

jamie

>>but sometimes maybe it doesnt seem as intimate as a woman on woman<<

I don't get that. I mean a man and a woman together are way more intimate. why? because a man actually penetrates a woman, he is INSIDE her, whereas two women only can lie on top of each other. if you ask me two gay men can be also more intimate than two women together could ever be, or how do you see that?

just my 2 cents
i totally agree prety much with everyone on here, its not that we are....looking for a "relationship"...or wanting to sleep with them... but they are more appealing.. and i love a man s body.. as much as the enxt.. i do... i think they are beautiful... but again :P i agree with Demon.a womans body when fully naked.. seems more... not so "exposed" if that makes sense..and a mans is more.. OUT THERe and in your face :P laughs. but both men and women are beautiful!!! either way :P and.. woman on woman porn, is hot! laughs... the whole straight thing is alright... but sometimes maybe it doesnt seem as intimate as a woman on woman?? not sure why.. thats what i figure anyhoo..

jamie

i never said men's bodies aren't attractive i just said overall females bodies are more pleasing to the eyes i guess i should say.
its not even a physical level.
im talking about oh a psychological level certain shapes are more pleasing and increase arousal.
and by arousal i don't mean sexually.
arousal is defined by anything that can increase breathing or heartrate. just like anger causes arousal.

why do most art classes have nude female models?
like i said they have more curves and depth that is pleasing to the eye.
just because a woman finds another woman arousing or attractive doesn't mean they want to have sex w/ them.
the male body is attractive but i know on some levels their genitals aren't as attractive b/c a woman's you can't see unless their legs are spread.
i saw a thing on tv where they were interviewing these ladies at a guys dance club. and they were like would you rather them get completely naked or do you like it just seeing their bodies and them in a thong.
they voted that they didn't really want to "see it all" they better enjoyed seeing the rest of the body and just the thong w/ the bulge so to speak. lol

>>overall the female body is more appealing and attractive to the mind than a male body<<

so basicyll you confirm what I wrote just above:the male body is not attractive enough...yet women tell me all the time that they are "not visual". Still all the time I read on this board that women are more appealing to women than men.
I still don't get all this...

>>2. Many more of us are bi- or, at least, bi-curious than you guys realize. That, too, is the way it is.<<

so where is this coming from? are men simply not attractive or sexy enough so women have to look for other women?
seriously I just have a hard time to understand this.

no i just think its the fact that overall the female body is more appealing and attractive to the mind than a male body.
females have soft skin and certain features and curves that attract us..sometimes even on a subconscious level that we aren't even aware of.