So my gf doesnt like foreplay, doesnt like kissing, she just wants to be ****ed hard and fast. She doesnt want to be fingered, oral, any of that... just hard fast dick. So what is bad about this is I cant really pace myself. I kinda have to go fast to please her, and I come within like 5 mins because it feels way to good. Any suggestions?
Ive tried the stop and go method. I can do that like 3 times before I cant take it any longer.
And some one please explain the masturbation squeeze method. I hear you can masturbate, hold in your cum, by squeezing in the muscles, and it exercizes it, so you can last longer? Please elaborate.
Thank you.
> And some one please explain the masturbation squeeze method. I hear you can masturbate, hold in your cum, by squeezing in the muscles, and it exercizes it, so you can last longer? Please elaborate.
Ever tried GOOGLE?
http://www.sexdictionary.info/squeezetechnique.html
http://www.partnertherapy.com/node/452
for lasting longer basically squeeze the shaft of the penis.. u will feel it start to 'lose sensations' as such and thus it will help u to last longer (will also make your penis a bit limp if you do it too long/too much so just enough so you dont feel the urge.
here's my two cents,
Also if she loves you she wont mind when you cum at all as a relationship is not based on sex. It should not matter how long you take, what you do, or whatever. All that should count in a relationship is that you are together and getting closer, no other factors should take part. She should not judge you on how long you last and should just enjoy the time you two have together.
like i said. my two cents, take it how u will or dont read it. up to you.
Ok I like it hard and fast as well but as for no kissing no oral and just kinda get it over and done with attitude not me. It shouldn't just be about what your girlfriend likes she should have to compromise and as for you cumming in 5 minutes what does she expect the more friction the faster your going to want to come. My husband grunts and sometimes swears to stop it from happening I think that is cuz he is trying to think of something else. And if you go fast and for a long time without cumming in my experience your penis loses feeling or the urge and goes limp so try not to like hold out on orgasm for too long or you won't get the opportunity to have one. Also my experience.
I know the times I've wanted it fast and furious and definitely from behind were mostly times I just wanted it over with. Have you asked her why she's just into that, but not other stuff??