ok my girlfriend and I will have sex for tha 1st time soon. we've talked bout tha things we would do and wat i would do to her.ive talked to her bout that she should feel free to tell me anything when we have sex bout tha things that she likes tha feelin of and dislikes. ive talked to her bout if she experience any pain and bleeding just to let me no. on tha 4th last sat she was at my house. we made out for a while and i really like it. and that was our first time making out for just ourselves. weve been in a relationship for 5mths. and she says shes ready to have sex wit me for her first time in her life and she wants it to be wit me. any tips to make it easier for her first time so that she would like it and any tips bout how i should/ wat i should do when i go down on her and how i should finger her? i just want her first time wit me to be enjoyable and fun wit me. thx for those who respond to this :)
Tue, 08/07/2007 - 08:30
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GF new to sex
If you make love the way you express yourself, you are never going to get going. It took longer than it should to translitereate this mess. And then I discovered you are asking the same thing that has been responded many times. Read around.
Hmm.. So ur saying uve recently only made out with her?
I suggest you dont start sex just yet. Find out more about eachother and likes/dislikes before you get into having sex.
Ask her if she fingers herself and tell her how she likes being fingered, and even better yet, tell her to SHOW you and to guide u through :)
Now that.. will probably be the best way to make her feel as best as she can;)
Just take it slow, DO NOT rush into penetration, try making out at first,then move to fingering, oral, oral+fingering, etc.
Read around just like Brandye said. Theres ALOT of helpful information, and tips on possibly everything u need.
read these:
http://www.sexinfo101.com/forum/new_sex/22722-kissing_and_caressing--a_young_persons_guide_exploration.html
http://www.sexinfo101.com/forum/new_sex/20641-intercourse_orgasms_the_gentle_art_humping.html