i need help my gf is insecure about her breast size is and i dont mind becase i think she is beutiful, is there anything i can do to help her feel better about herself?
Mon, 12/20/2004 - 05:37
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G/f insecure about breast size


I've told girls I prefer smaller breasts, because every breast has roughly the same number of nerve endings. But smaller breasts with the same number of nerve endings have more intense sensations when your fondling them.
Big Butts? As long as I can get a hand full I'm happy.
Then one thing that's in with a lot of girls in my area is tanning. I HATE seeing overly tan girls. I LOVE seeing a girl who's got a nice normal complexion or maybe even a little on the pale side.
Sometimes I do feel a little inadequate as a guy because I'm 5'8 and and 118 lbs. And my girlfriend weighs more than me.
but if she's happy that I'm freakishly skinny than i have nothing to change
my g/f always saying her boobs are too small etc i ve tried everything to rpve her that she anit small and dat i still love her she going on about a boob op but i dont wann her to any ways to tell her dat she dont need one or ways to tell her to make them grow wiv out thre op?
I had the exact same problem with my first girlfriend. I merely kept commenting on both her breasts and the fact that she looks beautiful to me no matter what. Finally she became comfortable enough to let the good times roll. Good luck my friend!
My girlfriend is sort of insecure about hers as well, but much less so after we've been together for a year. Alot of the time I just randomly say 'your boobs are nice' to her, or if we're in public Ill whisper it to her. She always laughs and compliments my man-boobs in return. Yea, we're dorks.
I'll add this to the good advice I see already posted.
I don't think that there is an end to it. One girl I dated when in my late twenties had 32A's with enlarged nipples from breast feeding. I thought she was lovely as she was petite in
size anyhow. The next girl was tall and willowy with 44DD's
and just as self concious. I've heard the womens media suggest 36C is the happy medium for womens breast size.
But as long as the womens media indroctinates women with the notion that they are infinately, refinable, perfectable, and just born flawed...in their quest to sell them every womens product under the sun.....women will have a complex about their body......somehow.
You know...this naggs at me. In the last 10 years someone got this movement started about womens butts being too big.
Sure there are concerns about obesity and all, but it didn't say
obese womans butts were too big.....just all womens butts were too big.
I've wondered if those cross dressing transvestites started it. You know some group of male beauticians who were cross dressers cooked it up so when they were in drag they would be precieved as having the perfect small tight butts?
I've come to feel that when I see an attractive girl who doesn't have a butt she may not be a girl.
Now, I've got a complex.
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When I am all dressed up for a party, I want a little more; when I am at the gym, I want a little less; in a bathing suit, more; in a business suit, less. We are all hung up on our breast size to some extent. Don't dwell on it and she will mature with what she has.
Well...the easiest thing you can do is consistently compliment her about her body (not just her breasts).
Sometimes it also helps for you to make a comment about a part of your body you think is inadequate or out of the norm (belly, love handles, double chin, space in your teeth, etc.)....she'll say, "Oh, it's not that bad, yada, yada,....then you chime in....well...that's how i feel aboutyour breasts...i love you just the way you are."
Now, if your relationship developes, many couples do decide on breast augmentation if it's a real issue.
How big are her breasts?