me and my gf have been having sex for 2 months now...and she has never reached orgasim during intercourse....she only reaches during oral and clitoral stimulation...can i get sum advice for her reaching during intercourse..
Thu, 12/09/2004 - 17:29
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G/f doesn't orgasm
Yaay!
So, was it successful? Meaning, did you and her both enjoy it?
Hope it continues to go well.
we did it again
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i am....i love her...and she knows that...its just weird....when we first started being active she wanted it all the time....then all of a sudden she just doesnt even care...im just confused and weird
Yeah, give her some time. She's probably just as confused as you are. For now, and until she brings it up again, I would suggest putting time into other aspects of your relationship. Go out together, have a good time, get to know and love each other better. A romantic dinner or two couldnt hurt either.
You'll both get over your nerves and give it another shot soon. Just dont put any pressure, and have a good time just being together.
that sucks.. give her some time.. maybe she'll change her mind.
great....now my gf doesnt want to have sex anymore...she says she just doesnt feel good down there anymore...this is weird and frustrating... :S
thanks for the help yet again...im glad i have others to talk to about these things
she doesnt like vibrators....i think the nipple foreplay or touching is a good idea..ill try that out...thats for the advice
does she say so? If she sense your inadequancy then things could get worse. Or she'll start feeling there is something "wrong" with her. I would definetly think about getting a little vibrator and using it on her clit while you have intercouse. With this, I have some of the strongest orgasms and they come quickly....quickly enough to have a couple. There is nothing weird about having to have multiple forms of stimulation. Sometimes thrusting and nipple action works for me too.
Remember this fact from Brandye
[QUOTE=Quote ]25% of all women never, or very rarely, experience orgasm. 50 % of us, and I am in this group, never, or very rarely, experience orgasm from penile thrusting.[/QUOTE]
and she's a DR, so she knows.
Is she your first? even if she isn't, 2 months is still early on to get to know what the other person really likes.
oh we have tried the positions...i dunno...she just doesnt reach it during intercourse....i feel like im letting her down
there should be several topics on this subject. This TOPIC should be good to check out. Mainly, not everyone can orgasm from intercourse. For a lot of women they must also have clitoral stimulation, so just try different positions and techniques.