Hello,

I'm posting on behalf of my girlfriend. We have been having sex for about 2 years now (not very regularly as we are in a distance relationship) but by now it's neither of our first times.

She says that there has never been a time when it didnt hurt. We both expected a little pain on her side the first few times (as is normal) but it never got better.

My erection angle is nearly parallel to my lower abdomen and I get pretty hard (and stationary). She insists it's because of my angle. I might agree because I have no idea, but I know that my equipment isnt like a spike in a board, it has a decent amount of play to the angle.

We have covered all of the common areas: lube, build up, mood, all of that. We both want to enjoy good, painless sex... but she seems to always be in pain.

What can I/she/we do? We are going to try out different positions to try to find our matching angle (any suggestions from people who have had these problems are welcome!). What other solutions might exist?

-thatguysheswith