i want to get my girlfriend a vibrator but due to the fact that we still live with our families we have run out of ideas as to how to get one exactly, oh and...we're both too young to go to an "adult" store:o, and we're not quite sure about Spencers, any ideas
Thu, 07/29/2010 - 09:05
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getting a vibrator
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Which does not answer the original question.
Spencer's, and other department stores and, even, discount stores, frequently do sell "personal vibrators." Go get one.
[QUOTE=Brandye;257581]Which does not answer the original question.
Spencer's, and other department stores and, even, discount stores, frequently do sell "personal vibrators." Go get one.[/QUOTE]
does spencer's ask for age? :o
Excuse me but Night Dreams has this terrific website. Do you have a card? Do you have older friends?
Now then, before you get all into this - you have to study up on the types of vibes out there and the purposes of each. How they are used and when - also important.
I recommend a clitoral stimulator (flat head with little bumps on it) as they are very specific in their purpose, small, easy to use, and cost about $10.
You will not find that at Spencer's but most 'adult' stores, I believe, will not challenge you if you look and behave 18.
It's been quite a while since I've stepped inside of a Spencer's - but I am pretty sure that they carried pocket rocket type vibes. Their website certainly does.
[url=http://www.spencersonline.com/product/neon-mighty-pink-vibe1/#prReviewEn... Mighty Vibe Assorted Colors in
Also, if you want something more innocuous, you could order something like the Hitachi Magic Wand from a popular computer store like Newegg who sells them much cheaper than adult sites.
Newegg wand link
Any Brookestone will sell "personal massagers", though they will be more expensive.
my question still hasn't been answered if anybody knows if spencer's asks for age
No, kids go in there all the time. Since you know it exists and are of the age where it's normal to just go to the mall, couldn't you have just walked in to check or called them?
well of course i know i could go in and ask, but i have an irrational fear of people getting super pissed and freaking out on me, so i'm not just gonna go in there in ask
[QUOTE=onlyformygirl;257609]well of course i know i could go in and ask, but i have an irrational fear of people getting super pissed and freaking out on me, so i'm not just gonna go in there in ask[/QUOTE]
Then you shouldn't be engaging in those sexual activities.
[QUOTE=onlyformygirl;257609]well of course i know i could go in and ask, but i have an irrational fear of people getting super pissed and freaking out on me, so i'm not just gonna go in there in ask[/QUOTE]
There are vibrators and then there are vibrators. It is important to understand that many vibrators like the Hitachi "Wand", and Wahl are appliances designed for general body use. This means, legs, arms, back, neck, scalp, feet, etc. That you choose to use these devices on erogenous zones is secondary.
Now, Brookstone and other general merchandising companies who sell these AC powered devices do so to the general public regardless of age.
"Personal vibrators" that are generally very small battery powered devices can be another story.
[QUOTE=funinthesun;257611]Then you shouldn't be engaging in those sexual activities.[/QUOTE]
now how does that quite make sense. so if anybody has a little irrational fear they shouldn't be aloud to do sexual things?
Look at it this way: you're NOT ready for sex if the FEAR overwhelms the DESIRE esp if that fear is irrational.
If you're going to egage in adult fun, you have to be adult about it because it is no good trying to play Monopoly with a Candyland game.
[QUOTE=EvilEvilKitten;257627]Look at it this way: you're NOT ready for sex if the FEAR overwhelms the DESIRE esp if that fear is irrational.
If you're going to egage in adult fun, you have to be adult about it because it is no good trying to play Monopoly with a Candyland game.[/QUOTE]
now everybody (most likely) has some irrational fear, whether it be big or small, that is keeping them from something, and just because they can't get over that, they are supposed to live they're life with out? no. given, there are some case where this is true, but only when there is a good reason (such as fear of getting caught for murder). and you say to be adult about, then it sounds like you're saying adults never have fear, which of course is no where near truth. so have i been wrong, do adults live with out fear, 'cause if so, i can't wait.
The focus of EEKs message is:
you're NOT ready for sex if the FEAR overwhelms the DESIRE
* fear of contracting a social disease
* fear of disappointment
* fear of Performance Anxiety of Premature Ejaculation
* fear of the unknown
* fear of any number of "what if's" that normally go away with a bit of experience
"Irrational fear" is mostly when any of the above are blown way out of proportion.
And I quote:
"well of course i know i could go in and ask, but i have an irrational fear of people getting super pissed and freaking out on me, so i'm not just gonna go in there in ask."
You can't even open your mouth to ask a simple question and yet you want us to believe you're ready for sex which is FAR more intimate?
THAT's the point. When the desire overwhelms the fear THEN and ONLY then are you ready for sex.
When you can go in there and ask what you need to know; when you can walk in and purchase what you need to purchase, THEN you're ready for sex.
Stop arguing murder etc. - that's just being silly. People who fear spiders aren't buying tarantulas. People who fear simple social interactions should NOT be getting intimate with people. It really is just that simple.
now that's not true, i maybe afraid of talking to stranger's but that doesn't i'm afraid of intimacy. and i'm a teenager, i think i've got a good enough reason to be afraid to go into a store and ask if i could buy a sex toy, i think any average teen would. and i'm not saying i'm ready for sex. i know i'm not ready for sex! but (it may be strange) but with my mind, foreplay is more like a contraceptive. it lets me know i'll have something to look forward too later, so i don't have to have it now. it's quite difficult too explain, and you practically need my mindset to understand it
oh i do love good debate
Excuse me but foreplay, body worship and so on actually is SEX. Just because there isn't any penetration doesn't mean its 'not sex'.