My partner at the moment is my right hand and I find that fine wine, soft lighting and perhaps a little dancing gets us both in the mood just perfectly. After all these years we have never fallen out and we still respect one another in the morning.
I bet there is a baby boom here in Detroit in 9 months. Matt Millen got fired today, and well everybody is happy.
And President Bush is going to hold a news conference about the lousy economy, hmmm getting it on or listening to Bush? I vote for getting it ON.....
There are several articles that address the topic of fooling around, making out, and getting each other all aroused. I recommend reading each of these and most if not all of the remaining articles just to further your education.
A major part of arousal is being attracted to the other person. If we are not attracted to each other, it is still possible to have orgasms, although, they won't be nearly as pleasant, powerful, and satisfying. That's Step One.
Step two is to take things slow and easy and spend lots of time getting to know each other personally.
Step three is to take things slow and easy and devote lots of time making out. If you are dating someone, then plan to spend several weeks expanding each others sexual horizons. Making out consists of the following components:
* Necking- Kissing and caressing above the shoulders
* Petting- Kissing and caressing above the waist and below (legs and feet) exclusive of the breasts AND genitals
* Heavy Petting- Includes all of the above and begins to involve (partial) undressing and pleasuring the breasts and genitals although the later may not happen for several more sessions. Just depends....
* Foreplay- Specifically pleasuring the genitals and breasts, although, this also includes everything that has gone on before.
All these activities are designed to convey affection and pleasure and will begin to arouse the other person as well as ourselves. The longer you devote to this (within reason--say half an hour to forty five minutes or so) the more likely it will be that the woman will become highly aroused (the female of the species requires much more time to become aroused than the male). This does not take into consideration the proverbial lustful "Quickie" in which one or both parties can get off in a matter of a few minutes.
Please read up on all this and if you have more questions, do not hesitate to ask.
My partner at the moment is my right hand and I find that fine wine, soft lighting and perhaps a little dancing gets us both in the mood just perfectly. After all these years we have never fallen out and we still respect one another in the morning.
I get turned on just looking at my wife. She needs to do so little to get me interested it's embarrassing.
I bet there is a baby boom here in Detroit in 9 months. Matt Millen got fired today, and well everybody is happy.
And President Bush is going to hold a news conference about the lousy economy, hmmm getting it on or listening to Bush? I vote for getting it ON.....
An excellent question, that, and precisely the reason several of the articles were written that are listed in the index located near the top of your main screen:
--BEGIN HERE--w/a Partial INDEX of Sex Info 101 Sex Ed. Topics
There are several articles that address the topic of fooling around, making out, and getting each other all aroused. I recommend reading each of these and most if not all of the remaining articles just to further your education.
A major part of arousal is being attracted to the other person. If we are not attracted to each other, it is still possible to have orgasms, although, they won't be nearly as pleasant, powerful, and satisfying. That's Step One.
Step two is to take things slow and easy and spend lots of time getting to know each other personally.
Step three is to take things slow and easy and devote lots of time making out. If you are dating someone, then plan to spend several weeks expanding each others sexual horizons. Making out consists of the following components:
* Necking- Kissing and caressing above the shoulders
* Petting- Kissing and caressing above the waist and below (legs and feet) exclusive of the breasts AND genitals
* Heavy Petting- Includes all of the above and begins to involve (partial) undressing and pleasuring the breasts and genitals although the later may not happen for several more sessions. Just depends....
* Foreplay- Specifically pleasuring the genitals and breasts, although, this also includes everything that has gone on before.
All these activities are designed to convey affection and pleasure and will begin to arouse the other person as well as ourselves. The longer you devote to this (within reason--say half an hour to forty five minutes or so) the more likely it will be that the woman will become highly aroused (the female of the species requires much more time to become aroused than the male). This does not take into consideration the proverbial lustful "Quickie" in which one or both parties can get off in a matter of a few minutes.
Please read up on all this and if you have more questions, do not hesitate to ask.
[QUOTE=2little;224919]how do u get urself turned on for ur parter?
or how does ur partner get ready for u?:confused:[/QUOTE]
sorry guys i guess i should have explained better....
i want to "ready" for when my husband gets home....
LOL @ JP
OP, just daydream about things you guys do together.