I get boners really easily over the slightest things like just thinking about a girl, hugging a girl, holding hands with a girl. Also before i hooked up with a girl (u guys might think im a freak), i blew my load in my pants before we even made out. I really want to change this. Could some1 please give me advice on how to NOT GET HARD SO EASILY, and to NOT BLOW MY LOAD SO EASILY. If i could do this, id be sooooo much more confident with girls. Thanks guys!
Tue, 09/30/2003 - 03:20
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Getting over-excited with girls
Here's a hopeful solution. Dont know if it'll work out. Excuse yourself when you feel one coming on and go to the bathroom and rub one out... You should be fine for at least an hour or two. So at worse you should only have to do it twice and if you do it twice then you should be ready for a long night.
can some of you guys that have experience in this issue give me some pointers so when i go to homecoming (with this chick ive liked for a long time) i can go through the night not getting hard so easily (of course if we're doin stuff at the after party its fine w/ me to get hard). Just so i can go through the dance and stuff without getting boners by the dozen.
P.S. Jacking off before hand doesnt work for me.
Thanks
Many years ago when I was teen and dating teens, I always jacked them off as part of the foreplay. It slowed things down, got me the attention I needed and they never had any trouble being ready again pretty shortly. When you get that far with a girl, she will be willing. I learned a good bit about male sexual response that way, too.
ya, its normal happens to me alot to.
check this out same topic http://www.sexinfo101.com/cgi-bin....;t=1662
Bahahahhaha *blow my load* I love that term lol
yeah
i think you were just cursed w/ extra hormones and an extra sensitive penis.
i think you'll just have to eventually outgrow it when your hormone levels start to level out and aren't raging so bad.
sorry
maybe some guys will have better advice.
ya mike, im 16 years old. Ive tried masturbating b4 going out, still doesnt work. It really bothers me
Sounds like a fairly typical teenage guy with raging hormones.. at least I assume you are since you didn't say.
Try masturbating before you go on a date or whatever, it's always worked for me with helping avoid those annoying erections when you don't want em.