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getting my girlfriend used to her new big dildo

hey , im new at posting but i feel this is a good way to get some tips , advice , etc. on my topic at hand .

my longterm girlfriend and i once experimented with a dildo some time ago , the experience was quite pleasurable for both of us , i particularly enjoyed using it on her while she pleased me oraly and i grew very fond of the idea of using a dildo on her . time passed , we were boh more open . my problem now is that , we were out one night and wandered into a sex shop, i convinced her to get a new dildo , so to my surprise she rather happily selected a "doc johnson realistic penis " at about 8 inches long and rather thick with a suction base . i didnt let her know until we used it that i couldnt wait to see her take that beast . so..... after fooling around ,i lossened her up a bit and penetrated her with the dildo . it entered her fairly easy . she seemed to be enjoying it for a while . i was so excited seeing her streched and enjoying a large penis that i thought i was going to cum without even being touched . after a couple days she admitted that it makes her uncomfortable . i really want her to suction it to our coffee table and ride it but she is hesitant . if anyone has any advice on how she could become more comfortable with its size or even some stories of past experiences , it would greatly be appreciated by a happy couplle that could be even more happy .

thanks

They are commonly called "extensions" and have been around for years. Their construction is a bit heavier latex than a condom and the end is filled with a soft rubber foam molded to resembel a mans penis. Generally they're two inches and four inches in length. Often XXX movie houses and book stores have a selection of sex toys where these are included.
I've even seen them available in the sexy lingere stores, where
the girls can get them when she really want to give a special treat to her sweetie.

When a guy puts one on it is just like the condom except the rolled part starts at the base of the foam penis. Often the foam "prosthesis" appears smaller in diameter than the guy's
penis by maybe 25%. Two stage missle anyone?

Some women just don't like the idea of these things and wonder why guys just can't be satisfied with who/what they are. I've found that when the girls are a bit more experienced and are secure with their sexual prowess then they are up for some adventure of this type too.

A girl can play with their toys and know what she can
accommodate in her vagina, but the guys will wonder if they are big enough to be pleasurable or satisfying for her.
(afterall they have no way of knowing....if a girl tells them they are just fine, then they may think she is just being nice) As I said, these things have been around for a long time....so that has to tell ya something.

Latex Penis Extension

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yo how does the extion condom work never heard of it does it work really curious

A lot of women will go along with this for a bit, just to be a sport and all, but if it is uncomfortable they will let you know.
I have a 4 inch extention condom I enjoy giving my g/f(I'm over 10 inches with it)

The first time I used it with her I had given her oral and she was lubed up nicely. We went slow and easy to start, but as I went past where I normally stopped her eyes rolled up in her head and she began to gasp and squeeze me till the bones in my back started popping. She got it all and looked quite flushed with a crimson blush over her breast. I could tell it was a world shaking experience for her, but she wasn't so anxious to do it again or on a regular basis.

Women can stretch inside to accomodate men of various sizes and some more than others. Still they will tell you it isn't comfortable. It is like a woman riding you where she faces her feet. Most like to be facing you as it just feels better for them.

I would urge you to allow her to tell you what works best for her. Some girls can be size queens and others can't. Remember the average guy is around 2 inches in girth and about 6 1/2 inches in length and the girls are said to be a little larger. When a female is aroused her cervix and uterus ascend creating a bit more space. Some females speak of a
pressing down feeling inside them when they climax in orgasm as a result of this. Interpetations of it vary from the women you ask.

It is a turn on for guys to penetrate women and wish to touch bottom. Just a guy thing. Some girls will tell you that they ache or crave to be filled completely too. Whatever, let the women tell you what works for them. I still think most of them would have a man give them good face, at least before penetrating them.

I once gave a girl this big monster life like plastic penis as a birthdaygift. She got turned on just looking at it more than anything else. She wanted a "Trophy Case" for it for her next birthday. She couldn't even get her lips around it to suck on it cause it was so big.

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I think the best prelude to trying something new (or almost new) and possibly uncomfortable would be to get her really hot and give her a good orgasm first. Not by penetration but orally. If she's anything like I am, she'll be really relaxed and ready for action. Talk to her about it and make sure she understands, preferably beforehand, what you would like to try and how much of a turn-on it is for you. I'm sure she wants to please you, so I wouldn't pressure her about it. Maybe then, if you mention it after you satisfy her, she'll be more open to trying it.

Vector I would have to agree with the others explain to her how you feel about watching her use it. Tell her how much it turns you on and how much you enjoy it. I bought my wife a 9 inch x 3 inch around dildo with a suction cup on it. At first she thought I was crazy for wanting to use it on her, but one night I got her drunk and lubed her up. She came like crazy she said she loves the girth but its a little too long for her. Either way I told her how much I love to watch her use it and now she puts on a show for me with it. I hope that it works out the same way for you.

Uhhh... this thread is 6 years old...
And get her drunk?! NEVER EVER DO THAT!