Well does she masturbate? I mean if she masturbates then she can touch herself and show you what she likes...I mean some (not sure how many) cant really get off that way...I mean it is just whatever...yet then they can get off through sex....

Just talk to her...I mean she has to tell it to you how to help get her off because we dont give orgasm...we help...

[quote=MRP980;205809]Hi me and my girl friend have been dating for couple months now. But I have this problem where i can't get her to orgasm. I can't get her to orgasm by going down on her or fingering her. We are not ready for sex yet. I was just wondering if you have any tips or what I can do. Its really frustrating and she just gets bored. I didn't have a problem with the last gf.

thanks alot,

mrp[/quote]I assume I am confused because your post is contradictory...not ready for sex yet but trying to figure out how to get her to orgasm? That appears to be a dichotomy.

It's sort of either you have sex or you have not. Sounds as if you have. You do not get her to orgasm...she does, you are the catalyst for helping her achieve the goals. There is a thread here...let me see if I can find it...

Here: http://www.sexinfo101.com/forum/new_sex/20641-intercourse_orgasms_the_ge...

Read through the whole portions and go back to the beginning of the forums...much info. is contained there.

Welcome to the SI101 Board and its Forums. I hope you enjoy participating.

Please begin by reading the Board Notices section, particularly the Posting Guidelines and the Index. The Index lists many informative how to articles. There are two or three that address your question about female orgasms in general, and specifically, how to help a person achieve an orgasm from a hand and/or oral stimulation.