My girl has expressed desire to do it more than once at a time. Of course I could just make myself not cum, but I want to.
With my last girl, she was a very loud lover and so when I needed to get it up a second time, I just ate her out or fingered her and got hard listening to her cries.
The new girl isn't...what are some strategies to get it up again? Should I just ask her to suck it?
How does it get hard in the first place???
Saying "hey suck it" isn't very subtle lol.
Most times... you do the first round... collapse in a pile... then you just lay w/ eachother a few min... caress her body..have her do the same to you... kissing..etc...all the other bag of tricks that you guys include in your foreplay the first time around.
[QUOTE]My girl has expressed desire to do it more than once at a time. Of course I could just make myself not cum, but I want to. [/QUOTE]
Wish I had this kind of superior control!!
dmbcup has the answer, what gets it up first time around? For most of us, provided a little time for recuperation is provided it takes very little more then the idea of "round 2" to get things ready.
demon always has an answer or atleast a funny comment
[QUOTE=tikteka57;174602]demon always has an answer or atleast a funny comment[/QUOTE]
LOL
why thank you!
I try :o
It usually takes me time before I can get it up again if I have cum the first time. There are times when she wants more and if she will work me for awhile it will get hard again. I usually don't cum the second time. What usually happens is we have multiple love making through the day, then it is much easier to get hard again. She isn't one who does this very often, so it isn't a big deal. If she needed multiple times, I would suggest a vibrator that you can use on her.
Take a shower after the first time and by the end you'll be hard as nails and ready to go:cool:
It's an interesting question. I always wait. Well, that's because she knows I need time to refresh :D but a second time is not a worry (a third one is not an option... can't handle that often, in a row). Just wait, relax, cuddle, etc. And take Vitamin E :D
a second or third time is usually NO PROBLEM...you guys are talking about in the SAME WEEK right???;)
LOL!!! hardngood - i was thinking something similar!
It's generally a function of time and excitement in getting it up a second time. For most guys, there's a least a certain amount of time that has to pass. After that, you may have to get in the mood again. While you're waiting, see if you can pay attention to her, to keep her hot and going. It can be tough because chemical changes in your head make you not so interested for a while. Concerntate on her for a while, then let her play with you even though it may take some time to get hard. Not sure if her sucking on you is the best way to go, she may not want it in her mouth if it's not hard yet. Give it a while to come up the second time, and even though she's not load and perhaps aggressive, if you keep your head into sexy thoughts it will likely work out. How about watching a porn video with her after you orgasm the first time?
This typically depends on the guy. I personally can go for a while and then get off during sex. All I need is about 2 minutes and I can get right back up with another load ready for another few hours of love with my gf. This all depends on the guy really. Some can manage to get back up a few times and others can only go for that one time and then need a few hours rest before they can go again. The best thing you can do is try and see if your bf can manage to get up again after you have sex. You just have to experiment and learn how your bf's body reacts to sex.
well,i'm 16 years old and i dont understand why guyz have trouble gettin up "again".About 5 months ago,my ex girfriend visited me and we had sex,when i "finished",she wanted the 2nd round so I gve it 2 her no problem,she later wanted another round and it went on like this 4 more times for a total of 6 rounds which lasted about 20 minutes each,is this normal?????
[QUOTE=rebel;180763]well,i'm 16 years old and i dont understand why guyz have trouble gettin up "again".About 5 months ago,my ex girfriend visited me and we had sex,when i "finished",she wanted the 2nd round so I gve it 2 her no problem,she later wanted another round and it went on like this 4 more times for a total of 6 rounds which lasted about 20 minutes each,is this normal?????[/QUOTE]
BAAAAAAAAA-HAHAHAHAHAAHA....ohhhhhh from the mouth's of babes! ROFLMAOPIMP
naw,man seriously,i swear i'm not lying!!!
[QUOTE=rebel;180765]naw,man seriously,i swear i'm not lying!!![/QUOTE]
6 times in a row...20 minutes each....sha right...maybe 20 minutes total. LMAO :D
After the first pop ......
well...kiss cuddle, relax and continue with foreplay.....
Usually cums less on the second run
okay, I admit I'm very naive (stupid) in this area , hence the silly questions in order to learn from you
... when you guys count how many times a guy is "up", you are talking about keep it hard, right? I don't have a lot of experience but last time when I was in bed with this guy, he come into me a few times with very brief naps in between.
I did not count but he did it at least three/four times before he took a longer nap and come again (he cum this last time). Is it normal?
To be honest we are morning once and then night once type of people. But I have a feeling that its going to be crazy. I have been holding my self back from the vibrator as much as possiable. It has been 45 days+ and i know when he gets back in the next 8 to 12 days. Well, lets just say: what sun?