I've been with my boyfriend for about 4 months.. and we've done everything except him going down on me (serious 1st time jitters)
so I have two questions for ya'll..
1. how do i get him to relax and not be so nervous about going down on me
2. I like things rough and wild and dirrty.. how do I open him up a little to trying to make things nastier
(he's so.. like reserved he doesn't like molest me or anything and I want him to touch me.. how do I get him to)
he might be worried that he may not please you the way he wants, reassure him that your with him not just for the sex, but for him.
I'm going to go out on a limb here, and suggest, uh, talk to him. If this is an open and honest relationship, you should be able to talk to each other about what you like and don't like. You should also be willing to make compromises.
Let him know you care about him and communicate.