Ok my girlfriend and I always love to mess around. Her give me head, me eat her out, etc, but not have sex. She was always really horny before we did it. We did it once which didnt last long at all and really hurt her. Which really sucks cuz now shes afraid to do it again, but says she wants to try it again. So i want to know is there anyway i can turn her on?? Get her horny?
I mean shes gets turned on a little sometimes but not as much as she used to, especially that night we TRIED to have sex.
What do girls like that turns them on?? Whats something that makes a girl wanna have sex?? or get horny??
Tue, 04/10/2007 - 04:18
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Getting her turned on
This is so girl specific dude, I can't really help you out with any specifics. My girl gets really turned on my nonsexual touching like rubbing her stomach, back, some of her errogenous zones that aren't close to sex organs (like ears and neck, and lower back)... But like I said dude, its very different depending on the woman.
i agree - its very different for everyone, but it sounds to me like she's tensed up a bit after sex. in which case, do something nonsexual - give her a back massage with oils and stuff - it can start nonsexual, but it will be a great way to relax her and then you can move on from there.
Yea its more like its her nerves than just the fact of her being turned on. Now, she probably feels that any making out or foreplay you guys do WILL end up in you 2 "trying" to have sex again.... rather than just fooling around.
Just let her know you are ready whenever she is...don't lend her to believe that every make out session will end up at an attempt at sex. That could be hindering her... b/c she can't just be in the moment and enjoy herself... she is just wondering what WILL happen.