Loud girls have always turned me on...I LOVE hearing loud screams, moans, etc. My current gf is great in many ways, but I find our sex life to be getting boring, because she is totally silent. I have asked her many times if she'd try making noise for me, but she's got some thing where she feels uncomfortable and won't do it.
I wonder if there's a way to get her comfortable with it? I was thinking of having sex with some loud music in the background, maybe?
I've done a lot of things in bed that she's asked, so I think it's only fair she try to accomodate this request, not every time even, just once in a while.
lol you could always deny her sex but i see that idea backfiring nicely
hmm you are getting bored because she is not making a noise ?
Golly gee all these young ones get bored so quickly
how about really trying to turn her on and then maybe you may get her
moaning and groaning or what ever you are after
study the links and just do it lol
http://www.sexinfo101.com/forum/married-long-term-relationships/23945-pr...
http://www.sexinfo101.com/forum/married-long-term-relationships/22724-bo...
She is definitely into it. We have sex basiaclly every time we see each other. She is just not a loud person.
Loud music is distracting. That is a step backwards.
She may lack self confidence or feel uncomfortable. My recommendation is to let her know that if and when she feels like vocalizing out loud you will find it pleasurable. She just may not be a vocal person and if not, so be it. Find something else pleasurable about her and maximize that so you are not fixating on what she is not yet prepared or capable of providing.
I agree. I am a shy person by nature... so I tend to be really quiet. I will let out the occasional moan/sigh... but I am definitely not like you see in the pornos where they are screaming out!!! OH YESS!!!!
Also depends on previous situations. Like I used to have other roommates.. so I would be quiet.. are there people w/in earshot when you are together??? Could be that... or could be she just doesn't want to be loud. I found that most times I am quiet so that I can concentrate on the good feelings...if I am trying to think about making noise... then I lose concentration.
I love making noises too, it adds to the fun for me. I have always lived with roommates though so I try to keep it down :o
try to make her as comfortable with her surroundings as possible. i know for me at least, i feel safer & less self-conscious in small, cluttered or dark places because thats just what im used 2. when im in the back of a car (small place) or in my bf's room (cluttered) or at night (dark) im waaaaaaaaaaaaay louder than when we did it in a wide open room in broad daylight- i barely made a sound, it just felt 2 weird! so just try go get her in an environment where she feels safe & confident, or somewhere thats familiar, so that she's able to let go.
Perception is such a difficult thing - she might think she's quite loud now!
[QUOTE=sweetnothings;233470]I love making noises too, it adds to the fun for me. I have always lived with roommates though so I try to keep it down :o[/QUOTE]
I find it a turn on when my gf screams or moans, I tend to be aroused for longer and discover more unknown positions to me & my gf!!!
I was making love last week & she gave an almighty scream, my room mate knocked on the door wondering where it came from, though knowing she was there!!! lol :rolleyes: :D