From reading all of your threads, I do not think she wants to have sex. It sounds as if she is not ready & this is something you should be speaking to her about, no one here can answer this for you except her.
Serious...Some women may not want the crack of their butt showing. Some feel it's impersonal, some do not like the feel, some do not want a belly hanging if their abs are not tight.
[quote=Serious_69;183221]But why wouldnt a girl want to have doggystyle sex? Any reasons? Shell like the guy on top cause she says it shows that the guy cares for her, and will do the same for me on top, but no doggy?[/quote]
[QUOTE=Serious_69;183227]Lmao, the crack on the ass part is the 1st thing that came to my mind. And thats prolly the case, but she would never admit that? Anything else? Anything I could say/do to make her be cool with it? Cause once it gets going, she wont mind it after the 1st 5-10 seconds.[/QUOTE]
Ugh... what's the dang question???
Sera is right in that some women don't like it b/c it's very inpersonal. No eye contact can be made... if that is what she likes.
Also, the whole butt thing can make someone embarrassed.
I also tend to shy away sometimes b/c when you do it doggy style... you WILL have the queefs or "fanny farts" as some people have called them. My b/f could care less... but I still get a lil embarrassed.
I mean you can't make her do it or say oh just get over it... you'll enjoy it once we get started :rolleyes:
[quote=demonbuttercup;183252]Ugh... what's the dang question???
Sera is right in that some women don't like it b/c it's very inpersonal. No eye contact can be made... if that is what she likes.
Also, the whole butt thing can make someone embarrassed.
I also tend to shy away sometimes b/c when you do it doggy style... you WILL have the queefs or "fanny farts" as some people have called them. My b/f could care less... but I still get a lil embarrassed.
I mean you can't make her do it or say oh just get over it... you'll enjoy it once we get started :rolleyes:[/quote]
Question was why missionary only? How do I convince her to do doggie or on top? Why does she not like it? This is why I quoted part! Caught him! LOL!:p
[QUOTE=Serious_69;183221]But why wouldnt a girl want to have doggystyle sex? Any reasons? Shell like the guy on top cause she says it shows that the guy cares for her, and will do the same for me on top, but no doggy?[/QUOTE]
Usually if you offer to pay an extra $50 bucks she'll "DO" doggy style! LOL
My gf was against doggy style when we first started having sex too. You should talk to her about it and try and see if she's willing to just give it a shot, and if she doesn't like it no more. My gf was completely against it until we tried it and now its her favorite position. You just need tot alk to her and see if you can reach an agreement.
It just depends on the girl and thier body. My gf particularly likes it because its a good position for deep penetration and is a good position that allows you to touch the rest of her body at the same time. I typically will do doggy, stimulate her clit, and kiss her neck and ears which gives her so many excitements at the same time. So just talk it over and see what she thinks and give it a shot and see what happens
[QUOTE=eminatic;183419]i've tried it a couple times. it always hurts...i keep getting that uncomfortable cramp/cervix bashing feeling =\[/QUOTE]
I get this too sometimes
You just have to either not bend over so far... it usually helps if you kind of just kneeling on your knees instead of on all fours.
Also just adjust your hips to different angles to see if one makes it feel better.
yeah usually shifting things around a little helps...but when things get really heated and rough, its too hard to keep everything 'aligned' right...and the resulting pain is a mood killer..
From reading all of your threads, I do not think she wants to have sex. It sounds as if she is not ready & this is something you should be speaking to her about, no one here can answer this for you except her.
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Serious...Some women may not want the crack of their butt showing. Some feel it's impersonal, some do not like the feel, some do not want a belly hanging if their abs are not tight.
[quote=Serious_69;183221]But why wouldnt a girl want to have doggystyle sex? Any reasons? Shell like the guy on top cause she says it shows that the guy cares for her, and will do the same for me on top, but no doggy?[/quote]
Got it?????????????
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[QUOTE=Serious_69;183227]Lmao, the crack on the ass part is the 1st thing that came to my mind. And thats prolly the case, but she would never admit that? Anything else? Anything I could say/do to make her be cool with it? Cause once it gets going, she wont mind it after the 1st 5-10 seconds.[/QUOTE]
Ugh... what's the dang question???
Sera is right in that some women don't like it b/c it's very inpersonal. No eye contact can be made... if that is what she likes.
Also, the whole butt thing can make someone embarrassed.
I also tend to shy away sometimes b/c when you do it doggy style... you WILL have the queefs or "fanny farts" as some people have called them. My b/f could care less... but I still get a lil embarrassed.
I mean you can't make her do it or say oh just get over it... you'll enjoy it once we get started :rolleyes:
[quote=demonbuttercup;183252]Ugh... what's the dang question???
Sera is right in that some women don't like it b/c it's very inpersonal. No eye contact can be made... if that is what she likes.
Also, the whole butt thing can make someone embarrassed.
I also tend to shy away sometimes b/c when you do it doggy style... you WILL have the queefs or "fanny farts" as some people have called them. My b/f could care less... but I still get a lil embarrassed.
I mean you can't make her do it or say oh just get over it... you'll enjoy it once we get started :rolleyes:[/quote]
Question was why missionary only? How do I convince her to do doggie or on top? Why does she not like it? This is why I quoted part! Caught him! LOL!:p
[QUOTE=Serious_69;183221]But why wouldnt a girl want to have doggystyle sex? Any reasons? Shell like the guy on top cause she says it shows that the guy cares for her, and will do the same for me on top, but no doggy?[/QUOTE]
Usually if you offer to pay an extra $50 bucks she'll "DO" doggy style! LOL
and on a side note...Serious_69,,why do you constantly delete your posts?? Is your Mom finding stuff on the computer?? LOL
My gf was against doggy style when we first started having sex too. You should talk to her about it and try and see if she's willing to just give it a shot, and if she doesn't like it no more. My gf was completely against it until we tried it and now its her favorite position. You just need tot alk to her and see if you can reach an agreement.
i've tried it a couple times. it always hurts...i keep getting that uncomfortable cramp/cervix bashing feeling =\
It just depends on the girl and thier body. My gf particularly likes it because its a good position for deep penetration and is a good position that allows you to touch the rest of her body at the same time. I typically will do doggy, stimulate her clit, and kiss her neck and ears which gives her so many excitements at the same time. So just talk it over and see what she thinks and give it a shot and see what happens
[QUOTE=eminatic;183419]i've tried it a couple times. it always hurts...i keep getting that uncomfortable cramp/cervix bashing feeling =\[/QUOTE]
I get this too sometimes
You just have to either not bend over so far... it usually helps if you kind of just kneeling on your knees instead of on all fours.
Also just adjust your hips to different angles to see if one makes it feel better.
yeah usually shifting things around a little helps...but when things get really heated and rough, its too hard to keep everything 'aligned' right...and the resulting pain is a mood killer..
i like to be facing my partner anyway :o
Never done doggy style with my wife. She doesn't like the idea, and I'm also like eminatic - I like to be facing her.