I really enjoy a shower with my girl beforehand. We are both very clean and we have already started in the shower. Try the shower idea. He might come around again.

Try showering with him beforehand? So he knows you are really clean etc.
If he still doesn't like that idea, then i guess there is not much you can do...

Some guys just dont like doing it i guess (can't imagine why, i love doing it for my girl).

Maybe you should stop going down on him, see how he responds then ;)

I mean hey, he shouldn't expect to recieve if he doesn't give right?

Perhaps some "condiments" are in order? Try ID-Glide lubricant... it has a very sweet and pleasant taste. IMO, vagina is an acquired taste; please don't take his reluctance personally.

ya it is an aquired taste but also the more pressure he has to do it the less likely he will, juss give him a couple hints that it would make you happy... cause he probably is really nervous like i was when i first started doing that stuff also it is really immature to stop something because he go down on you. because my g/f doesnt like giving me head much but i still will go down on her.

[QUOTE=loveablemonkey;154630]he did it once about 6 months ago, we've been together for 9, and he won't go down on me at all, he refuses! he said it didn't taste good last time, and now he 'can't bring himself to', which makes me feel really disgusting! i wax regularly, a complete hollywood so not like there's any pubic hairs to worry about, and he's said a couple of times when i've been inbetween waxes, when you've been waxed i'll do it, then when i do i ask him if he will and he's just like 'no'. i don't know what to do! i go down on him all the time! :([/QUOTE]

(1.) Give him absolutely no blowjobs.

(2.) If that doesn't change his mind, then accept the fact that he will probably never do it.

I know a few guys who also will not go down on their girlfriends. I have previously asked them why and i got various answers:

1. I don't want to hurt her by accident.
2. I just don't think it's very nice.
3. I don't know what i'm doing so if she doesn't enjoy it i'll feel bad.

Maybe 1 or more of these may be the reason that he doesn't want to go down on you.

Personally, my girlfriend doesn't go down on me until i've been down on her, it's the sort of "you do something for me and ill do something for you" thing that me and my girlfriend have. Maybe suggest, after u've gone down on him, that he does it to you.

Please understand if he does not want to do it. Do not pressure him because he will feel so uneasy when you both get eroused, he will know what you want and knows he won't do it so he may go off the idea of getting sexual with you altogether.

Just my thoughts.

It sounds like he may just not like it for some reason other than the taste. With you being waxed and then if you have showered recently, there really isn't much taste. You may just need to find a new boyfriend. Unless you can find out the real reason, it would be hard to try and change him. Some boys just don't like it. I have a hard time understanding this since it is one of the most enjoyable sex acts we do. Just being able to get her off with this and give her something directed totally for her, is just a great thing to do. I give her oral more than she will give to me and that isn't bad at all. Lately after I have given her oral and she is really aroused, then she likes to go into a 69 position. It seems this even increases her pleasure to be giving and recieving at the same time.

[QUOTE=loveablemonkey;154630]he did it once about 6 months ago, we've been together for 9, and he won't go down on me at all, he refuses! he said it didn't taste good last time, and now he 'can't bring himself to', which makes me feel really disgusting! i wax regularly, a complete hollywood so not like there's any pubic hairs to worry about, and he's said a couple of times when i've been inbetween waxes, when you've been waxed i'll do it, then when i do i ask him if he will and he's just like 'no'. i don't know what to do! i go down on him all the time! :([/QUOTE]

Well food does definitely impact on your kitty's taste. Tropical fruits are good (mangoes and pineapple are the best) - avoid garlic, beans, onions, curry and green vegies before a night of passion. Chocolate is debateable... but it does make for a good spread down there. Perhaps you can entice him with choc spread and whipped cream?

...just an idea....

Anyway, vagina is an "acquired" taste... so perhaps it's not for him?

You could try sweet talking him into it. In your "sexy voice", try telling him how good it felt and how turned on you were. To add to it, you could tell him what it did to you, bit by bit.

If that won't work, I agree with the others on this, just stop giving him blowjobs. Oral sex should be a give-and-take ordeal.

> Oral sex should be a give-and-take ordeal.

"Ordeal"? Me thinks this a poor choice of words.

[QUOTE=coveresid;154975]It sounds like he may just not like it for some reason other than the taste. With you being waxed and then if you have showered recently, there really isn't much taste. You may just need to find a new boyfriend. Unless you can find out the real reason, it would be hard to try and change him. Some boys just don't like it. I have a hard time understanding this since it is one of the most enjoyable sex acts we do. Just being able to get her off with this and give her something directed totally for her, is just a great thing to do. I give her oral more than she will give to me and that isn't bad at all. Lately after I have given her oral and she is really aroused, then she likes to go into a 69 position. It seems this even increases her pleasure to be giving and recieving at the same time.[/QUOTE]

I agree. I have always enjoyed doing it. I don't understand guys who don't like to do it.

(1.) Give him absolutely no blowjobs.

(2.) If that doesn't change his mind, then accept the fact that he will probably never do it.

NEVER FOLLOW THAT ADVICE omg that is the most immature way to put it, because he is not comfortable with his head next to her like that doesnt mean she should stop.

anyway to solve ur problem maybe hint that it would feel good and maybe buy a tasty oil for him to use

[QUOTE=unknown11;155277](1.) Give him absolutely no blowjobs.

(2.) If that doesn't change his mind, then accept the fact that he will probably never do it.

NEVER FOLLOW THAT ADVICE omg that is the most immature way to put it, because he is not comfortable with his head next to her like that doesnt mean she should stop.

anyway to solve ur problem maybe hint that it would feel good and maybe buy a tasty oil for him to use[/QUOTE]

That sounds really great except that it won't work. The guy doesn't want to do it and he's making excuses to keep from doing it. Meanwhile, he's getting BJ's on a regular basis.

Call me crazy, but that's inconsiderate because it makes her feel like something is wrong with her.

If it is just his personal preference to not EVER go down, then she has to just accept that fact. They've only been together 9 months, so this may or may not be just an example of many ways in which he is not considerate of her. If so, maybe her next boyfriend will like doing it.