Hello Larry,
Welcome to the SI101 Board and Forums. If you have not already done so, please read the Posting Guidelines and the Index in the Board Notices section at the top of the Main page.
Your question is a great first time post.
In addition to the link provided by Ephemera, I'd like to include the following:
* the how-to of Body Worship by EEK
* reading the relevant posts listed in the Index concerning how to Make out and make love in all of its various forms.
* do a Google search of "sexual positions" to find more ideas and illustrations
* go to JackinWorld site. I consider it to be the preeminent source on male masturbation and read the "how-to" and "Expert" sections. Here is a link to their Site Map page. Let her pick one or two techniques for her to use on you when giving a hand job.
* taking a hot soak in the bathtub for half an hour or so then showering each other using your hands, no wash cloth. Then towel drying using pats only--no rubbing.
+ if one of you arrives home earlier then draw a warm bath and await the other's arrival.
+ use a candle or a night light and make sure the room is warm. Keep her warm by drizzling water over her shoulders from time to time.
* setting the mood using candles (or at the very least a well hidden night light. If you like soft music, give this some consideration.
* One of you performing a strip tease for the other.
* Making love in different places--in the house, in the world.
* Planting a seed and letting it grow by hinting to her before leaving for work (or even the day before) what you have planned for later when you return and letting her ruminate on that all day.
* If you have kids and/or a busy schedule, schedule a date night for just the two of you. Farm the kids out over night or make love while they are at a neighbor's house. Busy schedule? "Plan your work and work your plan."
* Roll play--
+ this can be done in the the bedroom with such scripts as playing "nurse" or "doctor".
+ you can take your script on the road and plan to meet at a lounge (no bar) or a restaurant or the Mall and pretend to be perfect strangers. One of you picks up the other and then see what happens.
+ take it a step further by including a one night stand at the end of your rendezvous.
All this should give you plenty of ideas and even help your creativity and imagination. Have fun!
Larry you could also change your mindset a bit here. Think. How much about her sexuality do you really know? Would you like to find out? I ask this because of the great many people I meet who have no idea how overwhelming straight old regular sex can be. Most people just sort of "go through the motions" and think that's that. This, inevitably, leads to boredom.
Mutual exploration using such techniques as body worship (thank you, dancin' doc), erotic massage, stroking the bones, and a few bits of psychological play will greatly improve your, and her, sexual experience.
The opening site, www.sexinfo101.com, has some great articles and pictures.
Read, read, read.
Hello Larry,
Welcome to the SI101 Board and Forums. If you have not already done so, please read the Posting Guidelines and the Index in the Board Notices section at the top of the Main page.
Your question is a great first time post.
In addition to the link provided by Ephemera, I'd like to include the following:
* the how-to of Body Worship by EEK
* reading the relevant posts listed in the Index concerning how to Make out and make love in all of its various forms.
* do a Google search of "sexual positions" to find more ideas and illustrations
* go to JackinWorld site. I consider it to be the preeminent source on male masturbation and read the "how-to" and "Expert" sections. Here is a link to their Site Map page. Let her pick one or two techniques for her to use on you when giving a hand job.
* taking a hot soak in the bathtub for half an hour or so then showering each other using your hands, no wash cloth. Then towel drying using pats only--no rubbing.
+ if one of you arrives home earlier then draw a warm bath and await the other's arrival.
+ use a candle or a night light and make sure the room is warm. Keep her warm by drizzling water over her shoulders from time to time.
* setting the mood using candles (or at the very least a well hidden night light. If you like soft music, give this some consideration.
* One of you performing a strip tease for the other.
* Making love in different places--in the house, in the world.
* Planting a seed and letting it grow by hinting to her before leaving for work (or even the day before) what you have planned for later when you return and letting her ruminate on that all day.
* If you have kids and/or a busy schedule, schedule a date night for just the two of you. Farm the kids out over night or make love while they are at a neighbor's house. Busy schedule? "Plan your work and work your plan."
* Roll play--
+ this can be done in the the bedroom with such scripts as playing "nurse" or "doctor".
+ you can take your script on the road and plan to meet at a lounge (no bar) or a restaurant or the Mall and pretend to be perfect strangers. One of you picks up the other and then see what happens.
+ take it a step further by including a one night stand at the end of your rendezvous.
All this should give you plenty of ideas and even help your creativity and imagination. Have fun!
Larry you could also change your mindset a bit here. Think. How much about her sexuality do you really know? Would you like to find out? I ask this because of the great many people I meet who have no idea how overwhelming straight old regular sex can be. Most people just sort of "go through the motions" and think that's that. This, inevitably, leads to boredom.
Mutual exploration using such techniques as body worship (thank you, dancin' doc), erotic massage, stroking the bones, and a few bits of psychological play will greatly improve your, and her, sexual experience.