Well, my name is Evan and recently i've found the love of my life from what it seems. and what i am about to talk about has come up about 3 times so far, we are usually having a lot of foreplay and such which lasts for hours on end due to interruptions of random sorts. But anyways, right when we are about to have sex my penis just seems not to be hard, still big just soft and squishy like. from what my girlfriend says somewhat like plato lol, although I have read that after 45 minutes the erection becomes lost. are we just waiting too long after 2+ hours of foreplay to have sex, and my penis just not responding? any help is appreciated
Tue, 01/02/2007 - 03:27
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getting a bit soft
okay your problem can be from age or from other things. foreplay is agood thing but it would be best to try and get rid of all interuptions from the start. then try less foreplay if getting rid of the interuptions.
i used to have same problem, i found for me the problem was i was still very nervous and thought too much about how it is for her and couldnt relax properly, after a couple of weeks with her being very supportive and encouraging me etc the problem started to subside and now my usual time for recovering is 25-30min, sometimes it helped me recover faster when she would stroke me or suck me for a little bit, or even teh sensual careses over my body as we snuggled/played softly
Zan what do you mean your usual recovering time? the time you need to rest before you can get another full erection?
im 15 years old if that helps, but ill be sure to try to not do as much foreplay.